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कुछ खास है...

दोस्तों और बस दोस्तों के लिए .......समर्पित !

बस हमें इतना बता दे , ए ज़माने वाले, क्यों अंधेरो में रहे शमा जलाने वाले ।

मेरे नज़दीक जो आते हैं, जाने क्या सोच के आते हैं ये जाने वाले !!

कुछ अच्छा नहीं लगता !

मेरे दोस्त के लिए .....

कुछ अच्छा नहीं लगता तेरे जाने के बाद , हो सके तो लौट आ किसी बहाने से !

कि अब तो जीना भी सजा लगने लगा है ......न जाने कहाँ बस गया तू दूर ज़माने से .......!

खैर .....मैं ज्यादा शायरी करूँगा तो मेरे दोस्त मेरी क्लास ले लेंगे ....ये उन के लिए जो अपनों से हैं !

किसी की याद सताए तो क्या करें,

किसीसे मिलने को दिल चाहे तो क्या करें,

कहते हैं सभी, होती है मुलाकात सपनों में,

पर नींद ही न आए तो क्या करें !.........

मुस्कुराते ,खिलखिलाते रहो .......आपका दोस्त !

आत्महत्या करना पाप है - 2

आत्महत्या करना पाप है - 1

How to manage our self

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ELEVEN PICK UP EPIPHANIES

1.What you look like doesn't matter. But how you present yourselfdoes.

2. Nobody is judging you. They're too busy worrying about what youthink of them. So instead of seeking her approval, give her yours.Then take it away. Then give it to her again. This is calledflirting.

3. Women do actually like nice guys. They just don't like weakguys. So you can still be nice. But you must also be confident--inyourself, your opinions, and your worthiness and value in theworld. In order for a woman to be with you, she needs to feel safewith you.

4. It's not enough to just be yourself. You must be your best self.

5. There's a thin but important line between being horny and beingsexual. A horny man hits on a woman before she's attracted to him.A sexual man waits until she's attracted to him.

6. Just because you're interacting doesn't mean you're attracting.Learn to recognize the difference between politeness and interest.

7. To win the heart of a woman, you often have to be willing torisk losing her.

8. When a girl who you went on a date with in the past and whosuddenly disappeared on you calls out of the blue, it generallymeans one thing - so call back right away before she finds someoneelse to be with that night.

9. Always call a woman the day after sleeping with her and make herfeel good about having let go with you--even if you don't want tosee her again or she doesn't want to see you again. Don't ruin herfor other guys.

10. Don't look to your friends or family for approval as you learnthe game. They may like you just the way you are, but not alwaysfor the right reasons. With some "friends," this is because whenyou start looking better, feeling more confident, and succeedingmore than they do, you often end up reminding them of their owninadequacies and lack of growth.

11। Finally, to quote the wisdom of Canadian hockey player WayneGretzky, "You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take." Sosimply by approaching a woman and saying something, no matter howbadly you may bumble, you've dramatically increased your odds ofbeing with her.

I Hope this is helpful to some of you......Jiyo Ji Bhar Ke !!

हिन्दी का बोल बाला !

दोस्तों

अब तक अंतरजाल पता और ई-मेल ID अंग्रेजी में ही बन सकती है, अभी अंतरजाल पता और तक ई-मेल ID का हिंदी में बनना तकनीकी कारणों से नहीं हो पाया है... जिस पर शोध एवं कार्य जारी है..... चूँकि कम्प्युटर की आतंरिक कार्यप्रणाली पूरी तरह से रोमन लिपि पर ही निर्भर करती है और विश्वजाल का पता अथवा ई-मेल ID जिसे एक बार जारी किये जाते हैं वह किसी और को जारी नहीं हो सकते.... इसलिय रोमन एवं देवनागरी लिपि में परस्पर सामंजस्य स्थापित होना भी जरुरी है जो अभी तक नहीं हो पाया है, जिससे की रोमन लिपि में लिखा गया पता तथा देवनागरी लिपि में लिखा हुआ पता अलग-अलग न पहचाना जाये....

इस पर कार्य चल रहा है... उम्मीद की जा रही है की निकट भविष्य में यह संभव भी हो जाये....

जल्द ही हो सकता है कि आपको अपनी मनपसंद वेबसाइट का पता अंग्रेजी के बजाय हिंदी में भी टाइप करने को मिल जाए।

अगर इंटरनेट कॉर्पोरेशन फॉर असाइन्ड नेम्स ऐंड नंबर्स (आईसीएएनएन) हरी झंडी दिखा देता है तो डब्ल्यू डब्ल्यू डब्ल्यू डॉट जैसे वेब ऐड्रेस हिंदी और तमिल जैसी देसी भाषाओं में भी आपको मिल सकते हैं। ऐसा होने पर भारत में इंटरनेट का इस्तेमाल करने वालों की तादाद मौजूदा 5 करोड़ से बढ़कर कई गुना हो सकती है।


दुनिया भर में तकरीबन 160 करोड़ लोग इंटरनेट का इस्तेमाल करते हैं और उनमें से 50 फीसदी से अधिक लैटिन के अलावा दूसरे अक्षरों वाली लिपि पर आधारित भाषाओं का इस्तेमाल करते हैं। डोमेन नामों पर नजर रखने वाले गैर मुनाफे वाले संगठन आईसीएएनएन ने इसी हफ्ते दुनिया भर से अपने प्रतिनिधियों की बैठक सोल में बुलाई है।

उसमें वेब पते हिंदी और तमिल में दिए जाने पर फैसला होगा। यदि ऐसा हो गया, तो इंटरनेट के 40 साल के इतिहास का यह सबसे बड़ा बदलाव होगा। इसके बाद गैर अंग्रेजी डोमेन नामों के आवेदन भी स्वीकार होने लगेंगे और अगले साल की दूसरी छमाही में ऐसे नाम मिलने भी लगेंगे।

मिलेंगे मनचाहे सफिक्स

वेब पर नामों में फिलहाल 21 सफिक्स (वेब पते के अंत में इस्तेमाल होने वाले शब्द) लगाए जाते हैं। इनमें डॉट कॉम सबसे ज्यादा इस्तेमाल होता है और तकरीबन 80 फीसदी वेब पतों में इसका इस्तेमाल किया जाता है।

इसके अलावा डॉट नेट, डॉट इन्फो या देश से संबंधित सफिक्स जेसे डॉट इन भी इस्तेमाल होते हैं। लेकिन अगर नए बदलाव हो जाते हैं, तो आपको डॉट इंडियन, डॉट मुंबई, डॉट दिल्ली, डॉट अमिताभ बच्चन, डॉट पेरिस जैसे सफिक्स भी अपने वेब पते के अंत में लगाने को मिल जाएंगे।

हां, आपको उनके लिए कीमत भी अदा करनी होगी और यह कीमत 40 लाख से 2 करोड़ रुपये के बीच कुछ भी हो सकती है। कॉर्पोरेट दिग्गज भी डॉट टाटा, डॉट अंबानी, डॉट बिड़ला और डॉट रिलायंस जैसे नामों के लिए आवेदन कर सकते हैं।

पर हैं कुछ तकनीकी दिक्कतें:

इंटरनेट सेवा प्रदाता कंपनी नेट४ इंडिया के प्रबंध निदेशक और सीईओ जसजीत साहनी ने मानते हैं कि भारत में इसमें कुछ वक्त लग जाएगा क्योंकि तकनीकी दिक्कतें रोड़ा बनेंगी। दरअसल फिलहाल आप हिंदी में दुकान शब्द तो टाइप कर सकते हैं, लेकिन डॉट कॉम को हिंदी में टाइप नहीं किया जा सकता।

इस मामले में आईसीएएनएन सभी देशों के सूचना प्रौद्योगिकी विभागों से बात कर रहा है ताकि डॉट कॉम का सही अर्थ हिंदी या तमिल में मिल सके। साहनी कहते हैं, 'डॉट कॉम को हिंदी में क्या कहेंगे? आपको इसका फैसला तो करना ही होगा।'

इस बैठक में हिस्सा लेने सोल जा रहे सिफी टेक्नोलॉजिज के सरकारी मामलों के अध्यक्ष नरेश अजवाणी भी मानते हैं कि वेब पते स्थानीय भाषा में देना भारत जैसे देशों के लिए बहुत अच्छा होगा। उन्होंने बताया कि सूचना प्रौद्योगिकी विभाग के पास 22 स्थानीय भाषाओं के फॉन्ट पहले से मौजूद हैं, इसलिए इस काम में दिक्कत नहीं आनी चाहिए।

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Types producedincluded: absinthe, acorn, anisette, birch, calamus root, calendula,cherry, chicory, dill, ginger hazelnut, horseradish, juniper, lemon,mastic, mint, mountain ash, oak, pepper, peppermint, raspberry, sage,sorrel, wort and water melon! A typical production process was todistil alcohol twice, dilute it with milk and distil it again, addingwater to bring it to the required strength and then flavouring it,prior to a fourth and final distillation. It was not a cheap productand it still had not attained really large-scale production. It did notseek to compete commercially with the major producers in Lithuania,Poland and Prussia. In the 18th century a professor in St. Petersburgdiscovered a method of purifying alcohol using charcoal filtration.Felt and river sand had already been used for some time in Russia forfiltration. Vodka marches across Europe Thespread of awareness of vodka continued throughout the 19th century,helped by the presence in many parts of Europe of Russian soldiersinvolved in the Napoleonic Wars. Increasing popularity led toescalating demand and to meet this demand, lower grade products wereproduced based largely on distilled potato mash. Earlier attempts tocontrol production by reducing the number of distilleries from 5,000 to2,050 between the years 1860 and 1890 having failed, a law was enactedin 1894 to make the production and distribution of vodka in Russia astate monopoly. This was both for fiscal reasons and to control theepidemic of drunkenness which the availability of the cheap,mass-produced 'vodkas' imported and home-produced, had brought about. Itis only at the end of the 19th century, with all state distilleriesadopting a standard production technique and hence a guarantee ofquality, that the name vodka was officially and formally recognized.After the Russian Revolution, the Bolsheviks confiscated all privatedistilleries in Moscow. As a result, a number of Russian vodka-makersemigrated, taking their skills and recipes with them. One such exilerevived his brand in Paris, using the French version of his family name- Smirnoff. Thence, having met a Russian émigré from the USA, they setup the first vodka distillery there in 1934. This was subsequently soldto a US drinks company. From this small start, vodka began in the 1940sto achieve its wide popularity in the Western World. What is the origin of GIN? Thefirst confirmed date for the production of gin is the early 17thcentury in Holland, although claims have been made that it was producedprior to this in Italy. In Holland it was produced as a medicine andsold in chemist shops to treat stomach complaints, gout and gallstones.To make it more palatable, the Dutch started to flavor it with juniper,which had medicinal properties of its own. From Dutch courage to William of Orange Britishtroops fighting in the Low Countries during the Thirty Years' War weregiven 'Dutch Courage' during the long campaigns in the damp weatherthrough the warming properties of gin. Eventually they started bringingit back home with them, where already it was often sold in chemists'shops. Distillation was taking place in a small way in England, but itnow began on a greater scale, though the quality was often verydubious. Nevertheless, the new drink became a firm favourite with thepoor. The formation by King Charles I of the Worshipful Company ofDistillers, where members had the sole right to distil spirits inLondon and Westminster and up to twenty-one miles beyond improved boththe quality of gin and its image; it also helped English agriculture byusing surplus corn and barley. When King William III - better known asWilliam of Orange - came to the English throne in 1689, he made aseries of statutes actively encouraging the distillation of Englishspirits. Anyone could now distil by simply posting a notice in publicand just waiting ten days. Sometimes gin was distributed to workers aspart of their wages and soon the volume sold daily exceeded that ofbeer and ale, which was more expensive anyway. The Gin Riots Theproblem was tackled by introducing The Gin Act at midnight on 29September 1736, which made gin prohibitively expensive. A license toretail gin cost 50 and duty was raised fivefold to 1per gallon with the smallest quantity you could buy retail being twogallons. The Prime Minister, Sir Robert Walpole and Dr. Samuel Johnsonwere among those who opposed the Act since they considered it could notbe enforced against the will of the common people.. They were right.Riots broke out and the law was widely and openly broken.. About thistime, 11 million gallons of gin were distilled in London, which wasover 20 times the 1690 figure and has been estimated to be theequivalent of 14 gallons for each adult male. But within six years ofthe Gin Act being introduced, only two distillers took out licenses,yet, over the same period of time, production rose by almost fifty percent. Respectability, High quality and Patronage TheGin Act, finally recognized as unenforceable, was repealed in 1742 anda new policy, which distillers helped to draft, was introduced:reasonably high prices, reasonable excise duties and licensed retailersunder the supervision of magistrates. In essence this is the situation,which exists today. These changes led to more respectable firmsembarking on the business of distilling and retailing gin and it becamethe drink of high quality, which it has since remained. Many companiesestablished themselves as well-to-do manufacturers, often becomingpatrons for major enterprises; one such was the sponsorship of theattempt to discover the North West Passage 1829-33: the attempt failed,but the expedition did establish the true position of the NorthMagnetic Pole. Ginhad been known as 'Mother's Milk' from the 1820s but later in thecentury it became known as 'Mother's Ruin', a description perhapsoriginating from the earlier 'Blue Ruin' of the prohibition era in theprevious century.

What is Tequila? Firstthe history: Tequila was first distilled in the 1500-1600's in thestate of Jalisco, Mexico. Guadalajara is the capital of Jalisco and thecity of Tequila was established in about 1656. This is where the agaveplant grows best. Theagave is not a cactus as rumoured, but belongs to the lily family andhas long spiny leaves (pincas). The specific plant that is used to maketequila is the Weber blue agave. It takes 8-12 years for the agave toreach maturity. During harvest, the leaves are cut off leaving theheart of the plant or pina which looks like a large pineapple when thejimadors are done. The harvested pina may weigh 200 pounds or more andis chopped into smaller pieces for cooking at the distillery. Tequilawas first imported into the United States in 1873 when the first loadwas transported to El Paso, Texas. In 1973 tequila sales in the UStopped one million cases. Thereare two basic types of tequila, 100% blue agave (cien por ciento deagave) tequila and mixto. The 100% blue agave tequilas are distilledentirely from the fermented juice of the agave. All 100% agave tequilashave to be distilled and bottled in Mexico. If the bottle does not say100% blue agave, the tequila is mixto and may have been distilled fromas little as 60% agave juice with other sugars.

Grades of Tequila: • Blanco: 100% agave tequila that is un-aged and untreated with additives. • Reposado: 100% agave, "rested" tequila that has been stored in oak between two months and one year. • Anejo: 100% agave, aged tequila that has been stored in oak at least one year. • Mixto blanco: mixto tequila that is unaged. • Mixto reposado: mixto tequila that has been stored in oak between two months and one year. • Mixto anejo: aged mixto tequila that has been stored in oak at least one year. • Joven abocado: mixto tequila that has been treated with additives to achieve an effect similar to aging.

How many types of Beer are available to Drink? Here are the different styles you may come across at our stores or your favourite local brew pub. Ale -originally liquor made from an infusion of malt by fermentation, asopposed to beer, which was made by the same process but flavoured withhops. Today ale is used for all beers other than stout. Alt -means "old". A top fermented ale, rich, copper-coloured andfull-bodied, with a very firm, tannic palate, and usually well-hoppedand dry. Amber Beer - an ale with a depth of hue halfway between pale and dark. Barley Wine - dark, rich, usually bittersweet, heavy ales with high alcohol content, made for sipping, not quaffing. Bitter -the driest and one of the most heavily hopped beers served on draft.The nose is generally aromatic, the hue amber and the alcoholic contentmoderate. Bock - a strong dark German lager, ranging from pale to dark brown in colour, with a minimum alcoholic content of about 6 percent. Brown Ale - malty beers, dark in colour and they may be quite sweet. Burton - a strong ale, dark in colour, made with a proportion of highly dried or roasted malts. Christmas/Holiday Beer -these special season beers are amber to dark brown, richly flavouredwith a sweetish palate. Some are flavoured with special spices and/orherbs.
Dopplebock -"double bock." A stronger version of bock beer, decidedly malty, withan alcoholic content ranging from 8 percent to 13 percent by volume. Hefe-Weizen - a wheat beer, lighter in body, flavour and alcohol strength. Ice Beer -a high-alcohol beer made by cooling the beer during the process tobelow the freezing point of water (32 degrees Fahrenheit) but abovethat of alcohol (-173 degrees Fahrenheit). . When the formed ice isremoved and discarded, the beer ends up with a higher alcohol-to-waterratio. India Pale Ale (IPA) - a generously hopped pale ale.
Kolsch - West German ale, very pale (brassy gold) in hue, with a mild malt flavour and some lactic tartness.
Malt Liquor - most malt liquors are lagers that are too alcoholic to be labelled lagers or beers.
Muncheners - a malty, pale lager distinguished from the darker, heavier Munich Dark beers by the term "dunkel". Octoberfest/ Maerzen/Vienna - a copper-coloured, malty beer brewed at the end of the winter brewing season in March. Pale Ale -made of the highest quality malts, the driest and most highly hoppedbeer. Sold as light ale or pale ale in bottle or on draft as bitter.
Pilsner - delicately dry and aromatic beers. Porter -a darker (medium to dark reddish brown) ale style beer, full-bodied, abit on the bitter side. The barley (or barley-malt) is well roasted,giving the brew a characteristic chocolaty, bittersweet flavour.
Stout - beerbrewed from roasted, full-flavoured malts, often with an addition ofcaramel sugar and a slightly higher proportion of hops. Stouts have aricher, slightly burnt flavour and are dark in colour.
Sweet Stout - also known as milk stout because some brewers use lactose (milk sugar) as an ingredient.
Wheat Beer - a beer in which wheat malt is substituted for barley malt। Usually medium-bodied, with a bit of tartness on the palateEnjoy॥ now you know what you are drinking...

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Know your Booze.What is single malt?
Single malt is so-called because the malt comes from a single distillery.It is a whisky refined by a single distillery, using malted barley asthe only grain ingredient. Each distillery has its own distinct taste,flavour and style and single malts bear that. Some world-renownedsingle malts are Glenfiddich, Glenmorangie, Glenlivet, Glenkinchie andif you move into the rarevarieties, PortEllen,Dalmore, Glenfarclas, IsleofJura, Knocdhu, Lagavulin,Laphroig,Macallan, Oban,Taliskar, Cragganmore. Enjoying a single malt is aconnoissseur' s job and you have to learn tobe one. Asingle grain, as distinct from a single malt, is a grain whisky made atone distillery, while the single malt is made with barley.
What is Blended Whisky?Blended whisky is a mixture of single malt whiskys and ethanol derived from grains.Developed for those who could not stommach the strong taste of whisky,it is a combination of malt and grain whiskys. First distilled andbottled by Andrew Usher in Edinburgh in the early 1860s, it turned outto be softer, lighter and more palatable. The character of the whiskyis determined not only by the proportions of malt and grain whisky, butalso by the ages of the individual whiskies and the manner in whichthey are combined to bring out the finest qualities in each other. Mostwhisky drunk across the world is blended whisky. Famous Grouse, Bells,Teacher's, Whyte & Mackay and Johnnie Walker are a few that arewell-known.
What is the difference between Whisky and Whiskey?
Alcohol, malted or not, made from grain which is produced in Scotland is called WHISKY, while it is called WHISKEY if it is produced in USA or Ireland.American whiskey is called Bourbon and is made from grain. Bourbon isat least 51 per cent corn or maize. Scotch whisky is generally doubledistilled, while Irish whiskey is generally distilled three times.Wheat whisky is the rarest whisky. Rye whiskies are mostly popularwithin the US. Scotch whisky is whisky that has been distilled andmatured in Scotland for at least three hours in oak casks.What is Alcohol?Alcohol is obtained after breaking down natural sugar of grain into C02, ethanol or ethyl alcohol and residual content.Yeast from grains and vegetables changes the sugar into alcohol. Fromthe cheapest beer to the most expensive wine or after dinner liqueur,all alcohol is made with the same fermentation process. The differentcolours, tastes, potencies and flavours come from the different fruitsor vegetables used as well as the additives, by-products and dilutingsubstances employed during the fermentation process.
Why should you never drink on an empty stomach? Experts say eating food before drinking retains alcohol in the system where it is absorbed slowly into the blood stream. This gives the liver more time to break the alcohol down.Otherwise, it is directly absorbed without being broken down intosimpler compounds into the blood stream. This can be harmful for theliver and general health. The kick comes when the alcohol is absorbedinto the bloodstream directly and slows down the central nervoussystem. The absorbed alcohol blocks some of the commands the brainsends to the body; hence the reflexes and reactions are slower.
Does drinking water before or between drinks help you hold your drink better? Dehydrationcauses your blood volume to go down and alcohol will cause it to godown further. So make it a habit to drink enough water before you goout for a hard drink. Experts say incase of alcohol consumption, the bigger you are the better it is. Bigpeople have a larger quantity of blood, so alcohol they take in is morediluted as it mixes with the blood.Women are generally smaller than men. They also have proportionatelymore fat and less water in their bodies and so the entration of alcoholin their blood is higher for the same amount drunk.
What goes better with Whisky - Water or Soda? Whiskyis preferred with water more than soda as soda is carbonated water andit kills the taste of whisky. But real connnoisseurs of whisky like tohave it neat or with water on side or with two cubes of ice.
What is Cognac? Thewines of Poitou, La Rochelle and Angoumois, produced from high qualityvineyards, were shipped to Northern Europe where they were enjoyed bythe English, Dutch and Scandinavians as early as the 13th century. Inthe 16th century, they were transformed into eau-de-vie, then maturedin oak casks to become Cognac.. That was the start of the adventure fora town, which was to become the capital of a world famous trade. Cognacis a living thing. During its time in the oak casks it is in permanentcontact with the air. This allows it to extract the substances from thewood that give both its colour and its final bouquet. Ageingis indispensable if an eau-de-vie is to become Cognac. It takes placein casks or barrels that hold between 270 and 450 litres. The naturalhumidity of the cellars, in which the casks are stored, with itsinfluence on evaporation, is one of the determining factors in thematuring process. With the balance between humidity and dryness, thespirit becomes mellow and ages harmoniously. MakingCognac is the work of the Master Blender. Applying strict control,experience and intuition, he subtly blends eaux-de-vie of differentages and crus, producing a Cognac that through the years will not onlyretain its own personality, but will also keep a place in the heart ofthe consumer.
What is the difference between Scotch, Irish, Rye and Bourbon Whiskies? ScotchWhisky is whisky, which has been distilled and matured in Scotland.Irish Whiskey means whiskey distilled and matured in Ireland. Whisky isdistilled in Scotland from malted barley in Pot Stills and from maltedand unmalted barley or other cereals in Patent Stills. The well-knownbrands of Scotch Whisky are blends of a number of Pot Still and PatentStill whiskies. Irish Whiskey distillers tend to favour threedistillations rather than two, as is general in Scotland in the case ofPot Still whiskies and the range of cereals used is wider. As regards Bourbon Whiskey, the United States Regulations provide: (i)����������������� that Bourbon Whiskey must be produced from a mash of not less than 51% corn grain; (ii)��������������� thatthe word 'Bourbon' shall not be used to describe any whiskey orwhiskey-based distilled spirits not produced in the United States. RyeWhiskey is produced both in the United States and Canada but the namehas no geographical significance. In the United States, Rye Whiskey bydefinition must be produced from a grain mash of which not less than51% is rye grain. In Canada, there is no similar restriction. Therelevant Canadian Regulation states: 'Canadian Whisky (Canadian RyeWhisky, Rye Whisky) shall be whisky distilled in Canada and shallpossess the aroma, taste and character generally attributed to CanadianWhisky.' Canadian Whisky is in fact often referred to simply as Rye Whisky or Rye.
What is the Origin of VODKA? Vodkais a drink, which originated in Eastern Europe, the name stemming fromthe Russian word 'voda' meaning water or as the Poles would say 'woda'.The first documented production of vodka in Russia was at the end ofthe 9th century, but the first known distillery at, Khylnovsk, wasabout two hundred years later as reported in the Vyatka Chronicle of1174. Poland lays claim to having distilled vodka even earlier in the8th century, but as this was a distillation of wine it might be moreappropriate to consider it a crude brandy. The first identifiablePolish vodkas appeared in the 11th century when they were called'gorzalka', originally used as medicines. Medicine and Gunpowder Duringthe Middle Ages, distilled liquor was used mainly for medicinalpurposes, as well as being an ingredient in the production ofgunpowder. In the 14th century a British Ambassador to Moscow firstdescribed vodka as the Russian national drink and in the mid-16thcentury it was established as the national drink in Poland and Finland.We learn from the Novgorod Chronicles of 1533 that in Russia also,vodka was used frequently as a medicine (zhiznennia voda meaning 'waterof life'). In these ancient times Russia produced several kinds of'vodka' or 'hot wine' as it was then called. There was 'plain wine'(standard), 'good wine' (improved) and 'boyar wine' (high quality). Inaddition stronger types existed, distilled two ('double wine') or moretimes. Sinceearly production methods were crude, vodka often contained impurities,so to mask these the distillers flavoured their spirits with fruit,herbs or spices. Themid - 15th century saw the first appearance of pot distillation inRussia. Prior to that, seasoning, ageing and freezing were all used toremove impurities, as was precipitiation using it in glass ('karluk')from the air bladders of sturgeons. Distillation became the first stepin producing vodka, with the product being improved by precipitationusing isinglass, milk or egg white. Around this time (1450) vodkastarted to be produced in large quantities and the first recordedexports of Russian vodka were to Sweden in 1505. Polish 'woda' exportsstarted a century later, from major production centres in Posnan andKrakow. From acorns to melon In1716, owning distilleries became the exclusive right of the nobility,who were granted further special rights in 1751. In the following 50 orso years there was a proliferation of types of aromatised vodka, but noattempt was made to standardise the basic product.

क्या खूब कहिन !

दोस्तों नमस्कार मैं हूँ आपका दोस्त और इस ब्लॉग का होस्ट ......आपसे कुछ बातें शेयर करना चाहता हूँ जो कहीं न कहीं आप भी महसूस करते होंगे लकिन क्या महसूस करने से एक सच्चे नागरिक का कर्तव्य ख़तम हो जाता है ...नहीं बिल्कुल नहीं ? आखिर कब तक राज ठाकरे और बाल ठाकरे जैसे लोग हमें आपस में जाति, भाषा की आड़ में लडाते रहेंगे ?.......शायद तब तक जब तक हम जैसे लोग उनका समर्थन करते रहेंगे ! मैं आज इस ब्लॉग के माध्यम से इसका पुर ज़ोर विरोध करता हूँ ........आप चाहो तो बच कर निकल सकते हो ?

अच्छा पिछले दिनों मैं एक और कालिदास से मिला ....आप सब लोग भी उससे अच्छी तरह परिचित हैं !! जी हाँ सही सोचा " हमारी सरकार" ? कैसे ? वो ऐसे बंधू ...जैसे कालिदास जिस डाली पर बैठे थे उसी को काटने चले थे सरकार भी वही कर रही है ....चूकि हमारा देशा कृषि प्रधान देश है ...और सरकार किशानो को छोड़ हर तरफ़ बड़े बड़े सौदे कर रही है ...सरकार शायद भूल रही है....कि मंदी के भवर से देश अपने किसानो और कृषि के बल पर ही उभर पाया है !! जिस दिन सरकार रुपी नाव में किशन रुपी छेड़ हो गया उस दिन कोई रक्षा सौदा , कोई देश मदद के लिए सामने नही आने वाला ...तो समय रहते जागो सरकार जागो !!!

और अंत में इस कटाक्ष के साथ अपनी लेखनी को विराम देता हूँ कि .........अब बात करो १ पैसे में और दाल रोटी खाओ १०० रुपये में ! सभी को बधाई .........?



जय हो मंगलमय हो !!

No guts, No heart, and No spin

Five surgeons are discussing who makes the best patients to operate on।
The first surgeon says, "I like to see accountants on my operating table, because when you open them up, everything inside is numbered.
"The second responds, "Yeah, but you should try electricians Everything inside them is color coded.
"The third surgeon says, "No, I really think file clerks are the best; everything inside them is in alphabetical order.
"The fourth surgeon chimes in: "You know, I like construction workers... those guys always understand when you have a few parts left over at the end, and when the job takes longer than you said it would.
"But the fifth surgeon shut them all up when he observed:"You' re all wrong. Politicians are the easiest to operate on. There's no guts, no heart, and no spine, and the head and butt are interchangeable. " Add whatever you love to the Yahoo! India homepage. Try now!

Have a good day ......Jai Ho Mangalmay Ho

दीवाली और दिवाली

दोस्तों सबसे पहले दीवाली की हार्दिक शुभकामनायें .....मैं थोड़ा देर से दिवाली विश कर रहा हु उसके लिए क्षमा चाहता हु ।

आशा करता हूँ आपकी दिवाली शुभ, स्वस्थ और धमाकेदार रही होगी ....

जय हो मंगलमय हो ।

चुनें सबसे अच्छी फोटो

A Glass of Water

We all know that an optimistic would see half full glass of water, while a pessimist would see a half empty one। What would people of different professions and walks of life say?......

A Banker would say that the glass has just under 50% of its net worth in liquid assets।
The Government would say that the glass is fuller than if the opposition party were in power.
The Opposition party would say that it is irrelevant because the present administration has changed the way such volume statistics are collected.
The Economist would say that, in real terms, the glass is 25% fuller than at the same time last year.
The Philosopher would say that, if the glass was in the forest and no one was there to see it, would it be half anything?
The Psychiatrist would ask, "What did your mother say about the glass?"
The Physicist would say that the volume of this cylinder is divided into two equal parts; one a colorless, odorless liquid, the other a colorless, odorless gas.
Thus the cylinder is neither full nor empty। Rather, each half of the cylinder is full, one with a gas, one with a liquid.
The Seasoned Drinker would say that the glass doesn't have enough (or too much) ice in it.

तुम्हारी कसम जी लिए

दोस्तों यकीन मानिये पिछले कुछ दिनों से बहुत व्यस्त था तो कोई नई पोस्ट प्रकाशित नही कर सका .......वो असल में ...... मेरी प्यारी बहन के बेटा हुआ है ना इसलिए यार मामा बन गया हूँ तो कुछ समय तो उसके साथ भी बिताना था ......वैसे आप लोग कुछ भूल रहे हैं मुझे बधाई देना .....तो शुरू हो जाइये ........

ये कुछ पंक्तियाँ मेरे भांजे के नाम.......

चाँद पल तेरी बांहों मैं हम जी लिए ,
यूँ लगा जैसे जन्मो जनम जी लिए,
शाख से फूल से टूटते दम कहा,
कम जिए पर तुम्हारी कसम जी लिए .....................

हिंदुस्तान में हिन्दी दिवस क्यो : कटाक्ष

एक विशेष सूचना ज़रा गौर कीजिएगा ...................हिंदी दिवस पर बॉलीवुड के अभिनेता अमिताभ बच्चन ने अपने हिंदी भाषी प्रशंसकों को तोहफा देने का निश्चय किया है। अमिताभ ने अपने ब्लॉग पर खुलासा किया है कि वह जल्दी ही हिंदी और अन्य भाषाओं में ब्लॉग लिखने की चेष्टा करेंगे, ताकि हिंदी भाषी प्रशंसकों को सुविधा हो।
अमिताभ ने लिखा है हिंदी भाषा में ब्लॉग लिखने का मेरा प्रयत्न जारी रहेगा। समय-समय पर मैं आपको संबोधित करता रहूंगा। जल्दी ही आपकी भाषा में ब्लॉग लाने की चेष्टा करूंगा, बस आप थोड़ा सा धैर्य रखें। उन्होंने लिखा है कल रविवार ब्लॉग पर एक प्रतिक्रिया में मुझे कहा गया कि मैं ब्लॉग पर देश की आधिकारिक भाषा हिंदी में नहीं लिखता हूं। मैं लिखता हूं, लेकिन बहुत कम।
अमिताभ ने लिखा है इसका कारण यह है कि मैं जो भी हिंदी में लिखता हूं, उसे सर्वर को सभी भाषाओं में अनुवाद करना पड़ता है। इसमें देरी लगती है, इसलिए मुझे जब भी मौका मिलता है, मैं कुछ पंक्तियां हिंदी में डाल देता हूं। उन्होंने लिखा है यह बात सही नहीं है कि मैं सिर्फ अंग्रेजी भाषा के प्रशंसकों के लिए लिखता हूं...............

तो महोदय आ गई आपको अपनी मात्र भाषा की याद .......वैसे ऐसे आप अकेले ही नही और भी है जो केवल हिन्दी दिवस पर हिन्दी की सुध लेते है ......महोदय शर्म आनी चाहिए आपको जिस में हिन्दी भाषा ने आपको आज इस मुकाम पर पहुचाया है....उसी में लिखने और बल्कि बोलने में हिचकते है..........कुछ आप जैसे हिन्दी प्रेमी ! जिस देश में ९५ % लोग हिन्दी बोलते और समझते हैं वहां कुछ नेता अभिनेता और खिलाडी ऐसे भी है जो अंग्रेजी में बोलना पसंद करते है ....... कम से कम अपने देश में तो हिन्दी बोल ही सकते हो ...क्यो धोनी साहब ...!! यहाँ सब हिन्दी समझते है .....दोस्तों ऐसे नेता अभिनेताओ और खिलाड़ियों से बचो जो अपनी माँ को माँ कहने में शर्म महसूस करे ...

शायद ऐसे कुछ लोगो कारण ही आज हिन्दुस्तान में हिन्दी दिवस मानाने की जरूरत पड़ रही है .... बधाई हो !

ये रंग कुछ कहते हैं !!

Once upon a time the colors of the world started to quarrel:all claimed that they were the best, the most important, themost useful, the favorite.

GREEN said: "Clearly I am the most important. I am the sign of life and of hope. I was chosen for grass, trees, leaves -without me, all animals would die. Look over the countrysideand you will see that I am in the majority.

"BLUE interrupted: "You only think about the earth, but considerthe sky and the sea. It is the water that is the basis of life anddrawn up by the clouds from the deep sea. The sky gives space and peace and serenity. Without my peace, you wouldall be nothing.

"YELLOW chuckled: "You are all so serious. I bring laughter,gaiety, and warmth into the world. The sun is yellow, the moonis yellow, the stars are yellow. Every time you look at asunflower, the whole world starts to smile. Without me therewould be no fun.

"ORANGE started next to blow her trumpet: "I am the color ofhealth and strength. I may be scarce, but I am precious for Iserve the needs of human life. I carry the most important vitamins.Think of carrots, pumpkins, oranges, mangoes, and pawpaws.I don't hang around all the time, but when I fill the sky at sunriseor sunset, my beauty is so striking that no one gives anotherthought to any of you.

"RED could stand it no longer. He shouted out: "I am the rulerof all of you - I am blood - life's blood! I am the color of dangerand of bravery. I am willing to fight for a cause. I bring fire intothe blood. Without me, the earth would be as empty as themoon. I am the color of passion and of love, the red rose, thepoinsettia and the poppy."PURPLE rose up to his full height. He was very tall and spokewith great pomp: "I am the color of royalty and power. Kings,chiefs, and bishops have always chosen me for I am the signof authority and wisdom. People do not question me - theylisten and obey.

"INDIGO spoke, much more quietly than all the others, but withjust as much determination: "Think of me. I am the color ofsilence. You hardly notice me, but without me you all becomesuperficial. I represent thought and reflection, twilight and deepwater. You need me for balance and contrast, for prayer andinner peace."

And so the colors went on boasting, each convinced of his orher own superiority. Their quarreling became louder and louder.Suddenly there was a startling flash of bright lightening - thunderrolled and boomed. Rain started to pour down relentlessly Thecolors crouched down in fear, drawing close to one another forcomfort.In the midst of the clamor, rain began to speak:

"You foolishcolors, fighting amongst yourselves, each trying to dominatethe rest. Don't you know that you were each made for a specialpurpose, unique and different? Join hands with one anotherand come to me."Doing as they were told, the colors united and joined hands.The rain continued: "From now on, when it rains, each of youwill stretch across the sky in a great bow of color as a reminderthat you can all live in peace. The rainbow is a sign of hope fortomorrow."

And so, whenever a good rain washes the world, and a rainbowappears in the sky, let us remember to appreciate one another.

(Based on a Native American Legend)

थोडा जी लो

विश तुम कभी नही सुधरोगे, तुम कभी मुझे समझ ही नही सकते, पता नही कहाँ किसके ख्यालो में खोये रहते हो, खाना तो टाइम से खा लिया करो, कितना सोओगे, यूनिवर्सिटी नही जाना, कभी तो काम की सुन लिया करो ..... हे भगवन इस लड़के का कुछ करो ..............ऐसा मेरे डियर दोस्त, मेरी माँ और मेरे कुछ खास अक्सर कहते हैं .......और मैं बस इतना ही कहता हू ......मैं ऐसा ही हू ...मैं ऐसा ही हू !! लकिन दोस्तों मैं ये भी जनता हू कि सब के सब मुझे बहुत चाहते हैं ...ऐसा ही हू मैं !! खैर जब देखो मैं बस और बस ख़ुद कि तारीफ करता रहता हू ....आज बात आप की करता हू...हुम्म्म्म्म वैसे आप लोगो भी तारीफ के काबिल हो लकिन मेरे जैसी नही यार .........मैं केई बार जब आप लोगो को पढता हू तो लगता है ......... यार आप लोग कितना अच्छा लिखते हो मैं कब आपके जैसे जादुई अक्षरों को अपने लेख में पिरो पाउँगा !!! इसी क्रम में ........सबसे पहले बात करूगा उर्मी जी की जिनकी रचनओंने मुझे प्रेरित किया शेर लिखने को ...वह्ह्ह क्या लिखती है आप खास तौर पर आपकी पेंटिंग का तो मैं बहुत बड़ा फैन हू ..आशा hai आप मेरे ब्लॉग पर आते रहेंगे ..अब बात शमा जी की यार तुस्सी तो कुछ भी लिख सकते हो .....लकिन मुझे आपसे एक शिकायत है की आप अपना ख्याल नही रखते हो रखा करो काफी कमजोर दिखती हैं ..... बात मेरे दोस्तों की हो और प्रीती जी को भूल जाऊँ ऐसा तो हो ही नही सकता .....मुझे आपके लेखन का सादापन सीधा संवाद बहुत पसंद है ....प्रियंका जी आप मेरे ब्लॉग पर आए मुझे सराहा अच्छा लगा लकिन आते रहना होगा समझे ...राहुल को कैसे भूल सकता हु ......दोस्त अच्छा और सटीक लिखते हो ...थोड़ा और लिखा करो ......शुभकामनायें !! ज्योति जी कैसे है आप .......आशा है अच्छे ही होंगे वैसे आपने मुझे प्रोत्साहित किया ..अच्छा है लेकिन आपको निरंतर मेरे ब्लॉग पर आना ही होगा .....और वो अपनी शिखा जी ....उनका तो कहना ही क्या माय गोड उनकी लेखनी तो अपने आप में क्रांति लिए है .... उनकी रचनाएँ तो हिला कर रख देती है .....अब अन्तिम कहते है अगर ख़ुद को पहचानना हो तो अंत से शुरू की ओर चलो ...तो नाम आता है उमा जी का बहुत प्रतिभावान लड़की है आपमें वो जुनून है ...जो आज के यंगिस्तान से नदारत है ....अच्छा लिखती है ...अच्छी सोच है .....और हा अच्छी आवाज तो है ही ....अपने इसी तलेंट के कारण आपने एक नई शुरुआत की ...एक उदघोषिका के रूप में बधाई हो ऊउउप्स ....मैं भी ना !! तो दोस्तों ठीक है .....आपको मेरे ब्लॉग पर आते रहना है .....क्योकि मेरे लिए आपके कमेन्ट और कोम्प्लिमेंट दोनों अनमोल है .......

जाते जाते ....दोस्तों कभी आपने सोचा है .......हम अपनी ६० साल की लाइफ मैं कितना जीते हैं...नही पता मुझे पता है ......केवल चार साल...... कैसे ख़ुद ही देख लो ..........????

Suppose the average human life in today's world is not more than 60 years. If you analyse the break-up of activities associated with these 60 years of your life, you can see that it more or less matches with the following:

* 12 Years in Working

* 22 Years in Sleeping

* 04 Years in Routine Travelling

* 05 Years in Eating

* 03 Years in Bathing, Dressing etc...

* 06 Years in Useless Chatting, Gossip

* 04 Years in Sickness & Illness

* Balance ?

Only 4 YearsOur only question to one and all is, why should mankind think, involve in activities that result in sufferings, terror, hatred, fighting, killings etc... in the short span of 4 years left to them. It needs to be utilized in a better way by doing all good things, helping others and thanking God for the opportunity given to us in being a human being... Live and Let Live......so guys why are you waiting .... जाओ जाओ जी लो अपने ...चार साल !टाइम फॉर बा बा बाय .....जियो जी भर के !

DONT Copy if u cant paste

Dear bloggies...A popular motivational speaker was entertaining his audience. He said "The best years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman who wasn't my wife!" The audience was in silence and shock. The speaker added "And that woman was my mother" Laughter and applause. A week later, a top IT manager trained by the motivational speaker tried to crack this very effective joke at home. He was a bit foggy after a drink. He said loudly, "The greatest years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman who was not my wife". The wife went wild with shock and rage. Standing there for 30 seconds trying to recall the second half of the joke, the manager finally blurted out ".... and I can't remember who she was!"
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Moral of the story: Don't copy if you can't paste! ......

तनहा खड़ा हुआ हूं हजारो के बावजूद

दोस्तों और दोस्तों सलाम नमस्ते.......दोस्तों ये मेरी दोस्त की तस्वीर है जो मैंने बनाई है ..पता नही कैसी है.....?
क्यो न आप लोग कमेन्ट दें ......कौन सी फोटो अच्छी है .....या अच्छी नहीं है ??? ................
ये शेर आप सब के लिए............आशा है अच्छा लगेगा ....!!

वीरानियाँ है शोख नज़रों के बावजूद, मै डगमगा रहा हूं सहारों के बावजूद, मजबूर होके मुझको जुबान खोलनी पड़ी, समझा ना दिल की बात इशारो के बावजूद, कोई तो हो जो दास्तान दिल की समझ सके....तनहा खडा हुआ हूं हजारों के बावजूद ......!!

No fun without me

Hey wasssssssssss up ? dear Dost and bloggies plz welcome to saturday fever with VISH ........ To Begin With Words jump out at me. When I heard some one today say, "To begin with..." my thought sturned to all the possibilities.

To begin with...FAITH!You cannot say that you have faith if when you fall you give up. Faith means you will be given the strength to rise, or the hand to be lifted up. But don't lie there waiting. God provides for the smallestbird, but He doesn't throw the seed into the nest. They were created to fly......so dear always keep fly with ur deams.

To begin with...HOPE!Trust that in all things there is hope. Even when we cannot see the opportunity, there itis in the out stretched hand, the listening ear, the smiling face, the sunrise...I HOPE one day ......so guys keep hopeing for urself.

To begin with...LOVE!If you cannot see love in your life perhaps you need to put life in your love. Begin by accepting who you are and all you can be.This confidence will give you the power to love outside yourself. Love is not love untilit is given away. To love is to honor God.......Hummmmm love is unconditional .....love is not follow the rules......!!

To begin with...FRIENDSHIP!If you want to have friends, BE ONE!Sometimes friendship, like love, appears one sided.Sometimes people need more than they give.Trust that in doing for another the act is the gift you give yourself.

To begin with...THE PRESENT!Where you are at the moment is a result of where you have been. We only have the pastand the present. No one is guaranteed tomorrow.Learn from yesterday and begin anew with the Present.

To begin with...LOSS!Succumb to the feelings of loss. The heart cannot heal until pain is acknowledged.Tears are not a sign of weakness but an acceptance of the reality, a release for the bereaved. Faith, Hope, Love and Friendship will be your strength in the Present. Even in loss there is much to be gained.

To begin with..."I believe in you!"...........hummmm i believe in you guys yes all my bloggies my dear DOST........!!! always remember no fun without me so keep in touch !!!!

मेरी कलम की स्याही

प्यारे दोस्तों और प्यारे दोस्तों ,

पहली बार कुछ लिखने का मूड हुआ तो सोचा क्यो न .....अपनी सबसे अच्छी दोस्त ....के लिए कुछ लिखू जी हाँ आप सब उसे अच्छी तरह जानते होंगे .........उमा (चिंकी ) मेरी सबसे खास दोस्त !!!

उसे सिखाई है दरियादिली मोहब्बत ने ,
वो अपने प्यार से हस्ती बिखेर देती है ,
मैं आपनी जात में जब जब बिखरने लगता हु ,
वो मुझपे हसकर जवानी बिखेर देती है ......

नहा के बाल वो लड़की बिखेर देती है,
तमाम घर में घटा सी बिखेर देती है,
मैं उससे ध्यान हटाकर जो लिखने लगता हु,
वो मेरी कलम की स्याही बिखेर देती है...

जहाँ देखो वहां बस तुम .....बस तुम नज़र आते हो .....

कही खोये हुए हम तो कही खोये हुए तुम नज़र आते हो !!

Now the YOMANTRA says.................."Love can touch us one time and last for a lasttime"......!

फोटो बोलते है

सबसे पहले आप सभी दोस्तों को ........ दोस्ती दिवस पर शुभकामनाये ...कुछ तस्वीरें मुझे मिली तो सोचा क्यो न आप सब से इस बारे में राय ली जाए ......आशा है आपको पसंद आएँगी .......

Wht ur IQ?

WHAT IS YOUR IQ? Harness your potential carefully and in the right way and you will discover how intelligent you really are!

*Fear is what prevents the flowering of the mind.

*A conclusion is the place where you got tired of thinking.

*A great oak is only little nut that held its ground.

*A mind is a fire to be kindled, not a vessel to be filled.

*A sign of intelligence is an awareness of one’s own ignorance.

*An intellectual is a person whose mind watches it self.

*Brains are an asset, if you hide them.

*As we acquire more knowledge, things do not become more comprehensible, but more mysterious.

*Everyone has talent. What is rare is the courage to follow the talent to the dark place where it leads.



Hummmmm Socho Dear Dost.......

खुदा करे तेरे आने की बात सच निकले

गला घुटा सा लगे, नब्ज डूबती सी लगे ।
तेरे बैगैर तो हर साँस आखिरी सी लगे ।
समझ ले तू भी किसी के लिए है दीवाना ।
जब आईने में तेरी शक्ल अजनबी सी लगे ।

हैरान मैं भी था की नजारा बदल गया ।
खुशी मिली तो यार का हुलिया बदल गया ।
शायरी लिबास देखकर के के में है वो माँ ।
बेटा तू चाँद रोज़ में कितना बदल गया ।

जुल्फें, लब रुक्सार उठाये फिरते है ।
सब कल का अखवार उठाये फिरते है।
दुनिया चाँद सितारे छूकर लौट आई ।
आप कल का अखवार उठए फिरते है।

इसी कमी का नुकसान हम उठाते है ।
बुरा सुलूक बहुत जल्द भूल जाते है।
वो जिनके सर पर कोई हाथ तक नही रखता ।
मेरी ग़ज़ल में वही लोग मुस्कुराते है ।

यहाँ तो ज़ख्म हैं हर आदमी के कानो में ।
मैं चाहता था की बोलू कई जुबानों में।
खुदा करे तेरे आने की बात सच निकले।
मैं अबके बार हसूंगा कई सालों के बाद ।

पप्पू फ़ैल हो गया

Dear Bloggies.....you know WHY A STUDENT FAILS ???It's not the fault of the student if he fails, because the year has ONLY 365' days.Typical academic year for a student.
1. Sundays-52,Sundays in a year, you know Sundays are for rest.
Days left 313.
2. Summer holidays-50 where weather is very hot and difficult to study.Days left 263.
3. 8 hours daily sleep-means 130 days.Days left 141.
4. 1 hour for daily playing-(good for health) means 15 days.Days left 126.
5. 2 hours daily for food & other delicacies(chew properly & eat)-means 30days.Days left 96.
6. 1 hour for talking (man is a social animal)-means 15 days !Days left 81.
7. Exam days per year atleast 35 days.Days left 46.
8. Quarterly, Half yearly and festival (holidays)-40 days.Balance 6 days.
9. For sickness atleast 3 days.Remaining days 3.
10. Movies and functions atleast 2 days.1 day left.
11. That 1 day is your birthday. "How can you study at that day?"Balance days 0"How can a student PASS???
so dear parents dont belame ur child.......do somthing !!

हँसा मेरे हाल पर कैसा

रंग बेरंग हो , खुसबू का भरोसा जाए ॥

मेरी आँखों से जो दुनिया तुझे दिख जाए ॥

हमने जिस रह को छोड़ दिया, अब न जायेंगे उधर चाहे जमाना जाए ॥



अच्छा है जो मिला वो कही छूटता गया , मुड़ मुड कर जिन्दगी की तरफ देखता गया ॥

उसने भी छोड़ दी मेरे बारे में गुफ्तगू करना और कुछ दिन के बाद मेंभी उसे भूल सा गया...



फिरा हु ज़माने में दरबदर कैसा

मैं तेरे बाद भी जिन्दा रहा मगर कैसा

मैं जिसके हिज्र में रोया लास्टनोट की तरह

वो कल मिला तो हँसा मेरे हाल पर कैसा......


last bt not least ...yomantra_"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others"

ये 3 रन की हार !! मार डाला

Dear ohhh dear bloggers wass up r u enjoy ICC 20twenty world cup i hope not really you why becoz "We are sorry. We are more disappointed (than the fans) and we respect the emotions of our fans and the country. We gave our best and we say that with an open heart, we have nothing to hide. We apologize to the fans for whatever happened. We are more disappointed than the fans themselves”, said the Indian captain Mahendra Singh Dhoni after the team's exit at the Super-8 stage of the T20 World Cup 2009 losing by a mere 3 runs to England (and that too with 5 wickets in hand).Now, is it the same Dhoni who bought the T20 World Cup two years ago? If yes, then where's the confidence? And where is that flambouyant captaincy? Why is MSD acting so mean? Any answers?Well, to me, India were never the favourite this time. But, as it is my home team, I always had some distant hope that my team India gets the cup. But after all, reality is reality, and you have to face it sooner or later. This exit, in my opinion, should act as a wake up call for the captain Dhoni, the players, and of course for the BCCI.What the BCCI clearly needs to understand is that after all, the players are also human beings, and they too need some rest. Continuously playing can lead to a poor performance. And that is what happened with team India.And Dhoni's captaincy is also under scanner. There were a few decisions that went totally wrong. In the match against England, sending Ravindra Jadeja instead of Yuvraj Singh, at a time when India was at a crucial stage, went haywire. Not only this, saving Yusuf Pathan for the end proved disastrous as the run rate at when he came in to bat was nearly unachievable. Pragyan Ojha, the bowler in form, was rested in this do-or-die match. Can Dhoni explain this?And not to mention the Sehwag episode. Whether it was a spat between Dhoni and Sehwag or whether it was a matter of hiding Sehwag's injury or something else, this issue had certainly affected the morale of the team as a whole.Media, I just don't understand how they work. When the team wins a match, they portray them as the national heroes. And when they lose one, they start performing the post-mortem of the loss and tag the same players as traitors (they almost do that !!)Its not that I am confused on who to be blamed. Its a fault of the captain and players (for poor performance) and BCCI is equally responsible (for not letting the players rest before a crucial tournament).Its time for the ‘why’s, ‘if’s and ‘but’s to be answered. Explanations will be demanded and answered, crucial decisions may be taken and heads may roll. The hero of 2007 has turned villain in 2009. Yes, folks. The ‘blame-game' has begun.

दुश्मनों की भीड़ में

जिन्दगी की उड़ान से बाहर ,
हम हुए आसमान से,
वो जिन्दा है देखते है जो,
जिन्दगी को जान से बाहर,
पूछकर दाम खिलोने के,
हम निकल आये दुकान से बाहर.......


दुश्मनों की भीड़ में मुझको मिला अच्छा लगा,
मुझको तेरी दोस्ती का ये सिला अच्छा लगा ,
दोस्ती की राह पर जो एक पग न चल सका,
दुश्मनों की राह पर मिलो चला अच्छा लगा,

Funjabi

Hello sweet bloggy friends - I'm so happy to have returned. I have spent the entire afternoon getting all caught up with your goings on and may I say y'all have been ridiculously busy! I've tried to comment on something on everyone's, but you know I'm very distractable and have a total inability to focus on anything not related to Deadliest Catch or Quantum Theory - so if I missed you, I am so sorry. Here's a "Forgive Me Lollipop"!Ok... so This is Brilliant ! ! wery fanni!Say them out loud.... :)Learning Alfabet The Punjaabi Way!

A is for Aiscream
B is forBackside, and it has nothing to do with your butt. It is aninstruction to go to the rear of a building, or block, or shop or whatever.
C is for Cloney and its not a process for replicating sheep, nor is itsfirst name George. It is merely an area where people live e.g. 'DefenceCloney'.
D is for the proverbial 'Dangar da Puttar'
E is for Expanditure, the spending of money
F is for Fackade, and even though it sounds like a bad word it is actuallyjust the front of a building
G is for Gaddi, and the way a Punjabi can pilot his gaddi puts any F1driver to shame.
H is for 'Ho Jayega Ji', and the moment you hear that you have to becareful because you can be reasonably sure it's not going to happen.
I is for Intzaar, and to know more about it see P.
J is for Jutt, which every Punjabi seems to be.K is for Khanna, Khurana, etc, the Punjabi equivalent of the Joneses(e.g.'Keeping up with the Khuranas ji')
L is for Loin, the king of the jungle
M is for 'Mrooti', the car that an entire generation of Punjabis were inlove with.
N is for 'No Problem Ji.' To find out how that works see H.
O is for Oye, which can be surprise (Oyye!), a greeting (Oyy!), anger(OYY!) or pain (Oy oy oy...).
P is for Punj Mint, and no matter how near (1 km) or far(100 km) a Punjabiis from you he always says he'll reach you in punj mint (5 minutes...).
Q is for Queue, a word completely untranslatable into Punjabi - does notexist in the culture.
R is for Riks, and a Punjabi is always prepared to take one (risk), even ifthe odds are against him.
S is for Sweetie, Sunny, Simmi and Sonu, who seem to own half the cars inDelhi .
T is for the official bird of Punjab : Tandoori Chickun.
U is for when you lose your sex appeal and become 'Uncul-ji'
V is for VIP phone numbers @ Rs 15 lakh and counting.
W is for Whan, as in 'Whan are you coming, ji?'X is for the many
X-rated words that flow freely in Punjabi conversations.
Y is for 'You nonsanse', when anger replaces vocabulary in a shoutingmatch.
Z is for Zindgi which every Punjabi knows how to live to the fullest।
keep doing ha ha hi hi ........!!

Everything fare LOVE and....!!

Hello loverlies! I do hope Monday is treating you all very well - I know I'm enjoying myself immensely - It is amazing what can happen when you actually get some rest and then get some exercise, some social time, some more rest, and some yummy food. There's been some fun-ish things going on here in DocE Land, which I'm going to share because... well it's a blog and so what else am I going to do? today i wana share a wonderfull things with you ....you know A relationship has all the facets like care, love, intensity, passion, compassion and sensual intimacy. Making each other feel special, loved, appreciated and physically desired is a necessity to ignite sizzle and passion. There is a modern movement to change the perception of people with respect to sexuality through deep sense of understanding and admiration of the intense expression of love. It turns women into goddesses and men into lovers. Love When love elopes to new pastures, there is only intensity and pleasures. The skin becomes a cloth and feelings carry the soul afloat. We touch & mingle together, for the bodies to merge. And let the souls touch, hold together and submerge to unite and become one divine feeling.. Its simply called "Love" I Love You.

I felt you in the...

I again thought of you tonight and felt your warmth all around me as if, you are here only. I felt you in the creases of the bed. I touched them close to hold you. I remember your hands, your touch… your moist lips caressing upon my face. I go crazy with your soft whispers and your nibbles on my neck Those may be the most naughty times but my world completes in your embrace.

You kissed me ..

Your lips speak soft sweetness Your touch a chill caress I am lost in your magic I think of you each morning And dream of you each night I think of your arms being around me And cannot express my delight. You hold honey in your lips sweetheart.

Your sensuous touches…

The first day I saw you, my heart began to beat, as if I had run a thousand miles. I was going wild for your zealous body The day you kissed me, everything seemed to stop Now I am thirsty for your juicy lips.

Leave me Never Your sensuous touches...

Your naughty whispers... Your tickling brushes... Your crazy nibbles... Are enough for me to go crazy and wild I know your love is intense and not mild. I need those touches more than ever But I can't say no or never To that magnetic smile and the golden heart As that’s what makes our Love spark.

I feel alive..

When I am with you, I feel alive.. You bring to me the pleasure I need, You have touched my senses.... in ways no one could ever comprehend. You touch me, my heart and my soul I am sown all in you and am totally sold. My being would have had some worth But now within you I have become priceless.

hummmmm thts all Doston phir milange chalte chalte.......Jai HO mangalmay HO!!

वोट मंत्रा

Finally the IPL was started wait.. wait... wait ......i am talking about Indian Political league....so guys and girls With the elections right around the corner, every second day we read articles and blogs on why and how and whom should one vote. We have been bombarded with voting appeals, rallies and advertisements among others. Bollywood with all its might, has come forward and asked the youth to finally get their index finger inked. Aamir Khan campaigning for the National Election Watch campaign and Shah Rukh Khan flying in from South Africa amidst the IPL Season 2 just to vote. All this shows increase in awareness among 'star' voters, which in turn encourages 'common' voters to vote too.The word doing the rounds in these elections is - 'change'.
But change is never easy, you fight to let go and you fight to hold on and we see a classic example of this as we watch the senior most politicians in our country taking digs at each other। What we need is no sound administration but a sound leadership. We often see people criticising our country is run but as they say if people start criticising, hurting and shouting - don't be bothered because in any game, spectators make noise.Let's do it.At this juncture, what matters most is that we vote. 70 per cent of our population consists if the youth. They need to think about life beyond their college and office gates. A system cannot transform overnight, and change cannot be brought about in a jiffy but efforts can be made to improve.Our country has seen some of the gloomiest phases in the recent times, from fighting economic slowdown to taking a stand against terrorism, but has the common man come forward? Have you tried to make a difference? We can all be a part of a happy future, if we vote.Vote not because you want the misery to end but because you want to start a new chapter filled with hopes and beliefs.Vote not because you have to, but vote because you want to. Vote not because it is the need of the hour but because when the clock struck midnight on August 14, we promised ourselves a flourishing democracy.Every vote counts they say. I say let us make every vote worth counts.In my view, if you do not vote, you don't have the right to curse the government for the next five years which gets formed because of your not voting.THE DOT ON YOUR FINGER IS HOT..... Flaunt it !!!

JAI Ho IPL......(Indian Political League) Jago votar Jago !!

एक सच्चे दोस्त की पाती

मेरी सबसे अच्छी दोस्त "उमा चौधरी" ने मेरे लिए कविता लिखी है ......wahoooooo canyou believe it guys ......!!



कुछ जाने कुछ अनजाने हो तुम ,कुछ आपने कुछ बेगाने हो तुम,

कुछ सीधा कुछ नटखट सा अश्क है तुम्हारा ,

जो लगता है मन को प्यारा ,

बहुत दूर हो तुम बेशक मुझसे ,

पर सच कहू दिल के बहुत करीब हो तुम *****************

कभी रूठना कभी मानना ये तो है ,

बस तुम से मिलने का बहाना ,

बातो का ये सिलसिला यू चलता रहे ,

बस ये दुआ है रब से के तेरी मेरी दोस्ती का फूल हमेसा खिलता रहे ,

ख़ुद को खुशनसीब समझते है हम क्योकि ,

दिल के बहुत करीब हो तुम*******************************

एक अनदेखा सा अहसास है जो दिल के बहुत पास है ,

कुछ ना होते हुए भी बहुत खास है ,

या फ़िर यू कहू की एक अनकही पहेली

हैदोस्त है या सहेली है या फ़िर वो ,

चलो जो भी हो तुम सच कहू ,

दिल के बहुत पास हो तुम ***************



अब इससे आगे कहने को मेरे पास दोस्त की तरह शब्द नही है....निशब्द कर दिया यार !!

क्या आप मानते हैं कि दोस्ती दुनिया के हर रिश्ते से बढ़कर है?

आशा है आपको पसंद आए ....

......दोस्ती कहें या मित्रता, बोलने-सुनने में भले ही सहज सा लगे परंतु इस आत्मीय रिश्ते की गहराइयाँ पग-पग पर किस तरह हमें अनुकूलता/प्रतिकूलताओं में प्रेरित करती है, हमारा सम्बल बनती है, हमें संभालती है, यह वही समझ सकता है जिसके पास एक अच्छा दोस्त है। 'दोस्ती' वह स्वत: स्फूर्त चेतना है, जिसका आगाज़ नई उम्मीदें जगाता है तो अंजाम लौकिक सफलताओं के शीर्ष पर ले जाता है। कुछ कर गुजरने की ललक जब बढ़ती है तो एक सच्चा दोस्त हमें न केवल प्रेरित करता है बल्कि प्रत्येक कदम पर एक सहारा बनकर उस मंजिल तक ले जाता है, जिसकी हमें तलाश होती है। मैं तो यही कहूँगा कि दोस्ती वह रोशनी है, जिसकी ऊष्मा में रिश्तों की रौनक खिलखिला उठती है।दोस्त हमेशा उसी तरह साथ निभाता है जैसे हमारा साया। दोस्त होने का अर्थ है एक ऐसा आश्रय, जो हमें इस बात के लिए आश्वस्त करता है कि जीवन के झंझावातों में वह हमेशा हमारा साथ निभाएगा।पतवार बनकर किनारे पर ले जाएगा।बदलते कालचक्र में भले ही दोस्ती ने नया आयाम ले लिया हो परंतु इस सच्चाई को झुठलाया नहीं जा सकता है कि दोस्ती का रिश्ता आज भी उसी विश्वास, समर्पण और अगाध स्नेह का पर्याय है, जितना कि वह बीते समय में रहा है। चूँकि समय बलवान है इसलिए बदलता रहता है परंतु तमाम रिश्तों में एक सच्चे दोस्त की 'दोस्ती' का रिश्ता समय की धारा के साथ परिवर्तित नहीं बल्कि प्रगाढ़ होता है।एक सच्चा दोस्त वह होता है जो अपने दोस्त को गलत रास्ते पर जाने से रोके। उसके हित में ऐसा कार्य करे जिसमें चाहे उसे अपनी दोस्ती तक का बलिदान क्यों न करना पड़े। दोस्ती जैसे पवित्र रिश्ते में किसी भी प्रकार की हीन भावना को स्थान नहीं मिलता। जैसे वह अमीर है, मैं गरीब हूँ, वह ऊँचे कुल का मैं नीच इ‍त्यादि। यदि दो पढ़ने वाले बच्चों में अगर दोस्ती है तो उनका रिश्ता कितना निर्मल होता है। इस बात का अंदाजा हम इसी उदाहरण से लगा सकते हैं कि वह बालक पहले अपने दोस्त की बात मानता है फिर दूसरे की। बचपन की दोस्ती के मायने ही अलग रहते हैं। कोई भी अपने बचपन के दोस्त को नहीं भूल सकता। दोस्त के साथ वह मस्ती, वह खेलकूद, पढ़ाई में सुखद प्रतिस्पर्धा, एकसाथ खाना, स्कूल जाना, एक-दूसरे के सुख-दु:ख को समझना, आपसी भावना की कद्र करना, ये सब बचपन में आप-हम सभी ने किए हैं। इस मौके पर फिल्म दोस्ताना का वह गीत मुझे याद आ रहा है जो परदे पर अमिताभ और शत्रुघ्न सिन्हा पर फिल्माया गया- उसके बोल हैं- बने चाहे दुश्मन जमाना हमारा सलामत रहे दोस्ताना हमारा...समय की तराजू में जब रिश्तों का वजन तौला जाता है तो हमेशा उसी ओर का पलड़ा भारी रहता है, जिस रिश्ते में नि:स्वार्थ प्रेम और समर्पण का अहसास समाया होता है।किसी ने ठीक ही कहा है कि तनाव, चिंता और परेशानियों से यदि दूर जाना है तो एक अच्छे दोस्त को हमेशा-हमेशा साथ रखो। दोस्त के सामने हमारा जीवन एक खुली किताब की तरह होना चाहिए क्योंकि शक व संदेह इस रिश्ते को दीमक की तरह भीतर से खोखला कर देते हैं। अहसान और अहंकार दोस्ती में सर्वथा निषेध है। दोस्ती की बुनियाद ही परस्पर प्रेम, सामंजस्य और समर्पण पर आश्रित रहती है।कुछ रिश्ते तो निभाए जाते हैं मगर यह इकलौता ऐसा है, जिसे जिया जाता है। 'दोस्ती' जिंदादिली का नाम है। 'दोस्त' बनकर दर्द दूर नहीं किया तो दोस्ती क्या खाक निभाई। सुख-दु:ख में दोस्ती ठंडी हवा का झोंका बनकर गले से लिपट जाती है, जिसका स्नेहिल स्पर्श तनाव में भी सुकून देता है।'दोस्ती' की सरगम पर विश्वास के सुर पैरों में अपनेपन के नुपूर बाँधकर थिरकते हैं। 'दोस्ती' के पर्वत से ही प्रेरणा के झरने बहकर सफलतारूपी सरोवर में जा मिलते हैं। 'दोस्ती' वह जुगनू है, जिसकी टिमटिमाती रोशनी प्रतिकूलताओं की निशा में उम्मीद की किरण की तरह हमेशा जगमगाती रहती है। 'दोस्ती' उस सुरभि का नाम है जिसका अहसास 'अपनत्व' का अनुभव कराता है। कोई कहे 'दोस्त' हमदर्द होता है परंतु सच्चाई तो यह है कि 'दोस्त' वह गुरूर होता है, जिसके आश्रय में हममें मुसीबतों से लड़ने का साहस जाग जाता है।तो बोलिए... क्या आप बन सकते हैं, ऐसे दोस्त। यदि 'हाँ' तो आज ही के दिन से इसकी शुरुआत कीजिए...।

जय हो मंगलमय हो ।

आखिर क्यों ?

Dear Doston,

Salam Namste, Namaskar or Jai Ho .....hummm Finally we got the Oscar My tympanics are goin to rupture if I hear any more ‘news’ about this movie called ‘Slumdog Millionaire’…… seriously…. Well, ya !!! I have seen the movie… it’s grt really…. Full time pass…. Wat we’d call ‘Mast’. But, is it something that deserves all the grt hype that it’s got????God!!!!!! noooooooo!!! And trust me, am not the only one who feels this way. For those who saw the movie before the boong bang, and all the hulla gulla, it must have been a ‘sahi’ movie…. Too good…. Lekin for people like me who saw the movie after it had already become an international hit… the movie wud be ok types… ummm chalta hai… nice movie…. And this coz’ we definitely do accept more from a movie that’s being nominated for the Oscars.. newaz..
It is just such a typical Indian attitude….we go crazy with any ‘firang’ acclaim… Now tell me.. is this movie any closer to reality than let’s say ‘Taare Zameen Par’? or many many other Indian movies????? Ha ha I agree!! The slums are a reality (not in the whole of India)…. The riots are a reality (not in the whole of India), …. The business of child beggary is a reality (not in the whole of India)… the crime Lords are a reality (ummmm…. The goondas??? Ya.. goondas are everywhere) and the craze for Amitabh Bachan is a reality (again, not in the whole of India)Which scenes strike as the most ‘funny’? (if, you can call it that!!) we’d get many answers to this question… one of the answers wud be the scene..where a firang couple is fooled by showing them the ‘bigest dhobi ghaat’ in IndiaAnd bout the scene where the young Jamaal takes another firang couple round the Taj Mahal and tells them all non-sense bout this beautiful monument…But, tell me is this the way things happen in India? I don’t say that there’s no evil in India.. but, what I mean is that ‘evil’ is not the only thing in India… and somehow the film that wins Oscar is not Lagaan but Slumdog, directed by Boyle…. And portraying a very stereotypical India..Now, if you tell that these are unrealistic ‘masala’ added to make the movie work… then, I’d ask… what went wrong with ‘ A Wednesday’? it’s unrealistic enuf .. but, at least with a way more important subject….. Newaz…The only thing I understand from all this tamasha is that it’s just the usual ‘firang’ habit of uchhalofying everything bad bout India…. I wonder how many of you have noticed this.. but if there’d be 8 people standing somewhere.. out of which 3 are skul students (so, they’d know English…. Even if from a skul dats not English Medium, they’d have some idea of the language newaz….) 1 is dressed in trousers and shirts and a tie with a briefcase in his hands and prolly even talking on his mobile in ENGLISH, and 4 others who are wearing mundus or even if pants… they luk like just those people whud NOT know English……the firang who needs to ask the way or any other typical firang doubt.. will choose from among the 4 ‘non-English-knowing’ people (based on who appears most non-English-knowing)… and ask the question in his/her twisted tongued English to the poor soul who’d look helpless…. And then the student or the tie-wala will offer help…
Any show on discovery…. Wen they visit other countries, they show the best streets, and live in the best hotels… but wen they are in India, they avoid streets (prefer the lanes), live in places even we as Indians wud try to avoid (minus the ‘money’ problem)…Show them a beautiful and sacred tree… they wont take a pic of the tree but of the toffee wrappers lying near it….Such are the firangs… absolutely in love with the not-so-good-and-shud-be-changed things bout India….. this becoz.. anything that they do find very-Indian-and-good , they learn it themselves and become Gurus and go back to their own firangistan and teach them as the art (or science) was born in that very country.. be it yoga, be it Sanskrit, be it bharat natyam……Such beautiful Indian things will be shown in relation to firang teachers, or Indians settled abroad … or if they (so against their wishes) have to take shots of IRIs (Indians Residing in India).. they’d make them into the driest of documentaries….No wonder Lagaan banged…. *blah*Goin by the way things are.. you either gotto be a white, off-white, cream, black or brown in a white/black land…… coz a brown in a brown land is brown shit and nothing better….Are we missing the fact that Slumdog was, after all, directed by a ‘firang’.Now, coming to the Indian obsession of ‘white’ …. All we see is the-white-tareef-for-Indians…. We forget so easily that all this hype is grt but just see ki wat a picture of India does this give to others???? Another example of the Indian-White-craze is that how easily we can accept (‘whites’ aand ‘blacks’) saving the world from Aliens, space ships, dinosaurs…. How easily we cud take in Matrix…. But .. but… but…. Krish had a tough time becoming a superhero… Rudraksh was ‘unreal’ ( o ya!!! Dinos aur slimy aliens to har gali mein ghumte hai na!) and Love Story 2050 was a ’robotic disaster’......For people of this kind… mubarak ho! Hindustan ki khaamiyon par duniya taali baja rahi hai! Aap bhi bajao!
Newaz…. If I had to show the bad side of India … I’d rather send Traffic Signal, Apharan….. not Slumdog newaz….And ask me to show the real side of India.. I’d show ‘Swami’ which is ‘middle-class’, the class that constitutes majority of Indians…. I’d show ‘A Wednesday’ coz that’s what every Indian aims to be (or shud aim to be),… Slumdog was a grt movie…….. but, Lagaan stands way way way above it!........but dear friend i always ask my self why we need a Oscar awards ....why ? lagta hai humen abhi bhi aapni chhamtoo par shak hai......?



Jai ho mangalmay ho

बिज़नस Journalism

Dear DOSTO,

I hope u like it..........A man falls into a ditch with an exposed electric wire. He survives to tell the tale. A television reporter shoves a mike into his face and asks him how he was feeling when the electric current was running through his body. “Bahut acha lag raha tha (I was feeling good),” responds the glamour-struck man as a ‘Breaking News’ ticker runs at the bottom of the TV screen. This is a scene from a critically acclaimed film released earlier this year, A Wednesday.
It is time editors and media owners started getting worried.
Not just A Wednesday but several Hindi films have been adding a television crew and a reporter to their stock of scenes. Often the reporter is a bimbo, asks silly questions and falls for whatever is fed to her. Don’t blame the films, they are just taking popular perception and adding it to the script, as they have for years.
Remember the businessman — till the ’80s he formed the centre of hatred in most films. In the ’60s and ’70s he was a smuggler or a fraudster in most films. In the ’80s and ’90s, as cynicism with the system rose, policemen and politicians got added to this list. Then after the mid-’90s as liberalisation took off businessmen became good.
When TV news took off, in the late ’90s, serious TV reporters were part of the stock scenes in films such as Satya and Company. But as it degenerated (at least large parts of it) into a farce of poor reportage, all cinema did was use the real-life material.
This however is not just about TV news. It is about journalism. The only difference between print and TV is that the mistakes TV reporters make are there for everyone to see, so they get lampooned easily. Print gets away with many more mistakes because of its lower reach and a greater respect for the written word in India.

Take business journalism for example. Tarun Tejpal of Tehelka asked this question at a public forum this year: ‘When was the last corporate scandal that a newspaper or a magazine broke in India?’ As access to companies gets tougher, thanks to PR and corporate communications functions becoming stronger, journalists have stopped trying to get at stories or break them. They just take what is handed out in the name of news, interview a few experts and bung in the copy. If a journalist thinks he has an exclusive, he will happily run with it, without asking why he got it — who is playing him up against whom and why.
In my fifteen years as a business reporter and editor, I have had several cringy moments such as journalists asking the CEO of a listed company for its revenue numbers. Some of my (business) reporters had to be taught basic mathematical skills like calculating percentages or reading a profit and loss statement. How could any of them even hope to catch any discrepancy in those numbers? Most companies in India can get away with blue murder because media simply doesn’t question businesses enough. (With the Lehman Brothers collapse, though, this is a charge the American media too is facing.)
Of course saying that all journalists are incompetent is as sweepingly unfair as saying that all doctors are careless or that all policemen are corrupt. India has several world-class editors, reporters, writers and media brands. But it is the ill-trained reporters on the field who are moulding the perception about the profession today. If we allow them to continue doing that, then content codes and censorship are something that the public will gladly welcome.
The reasons much of this happens is evident — higher dependence on advertising, rising salaries and the inability and (at times) unwillingness of owners to match salaries in other industries, to invest seriously in training and so on. Most owners will gladly pay MNC-like salaries on the marketing and ad sales side of the business, but baulk at doing that on the content side. If TV companies spent on training even a fraction of the money they spend on carriage fees (Rs 30 crore a year a channel), their content could improve ten-fold.

If content is the heart of the news business, then media owners and editors need to start worrying about what they should be doing to fix the reputation of the people generating it. It took businessmen three decades to move out of the frame as villains. God knows how long journalists will take.

guys see it and have it....!!

दोस्तों के नाम पाती

दोस्तों सबसे पहले उन सभी का शुक्रिया जो मेरे ब्लॉग पर पधारे और अपने विचार ....मेरे द्वारा लिखे post पर छोड !!
ब्लॉग पर आते रहे ....क्योकि आपकी राय मेरे बहुत काम आती है । और मुझे प्रोत्साहित करती है बहतर करने के लिए .....!!
इस ब्लोगिंग के माध्यम से मैंने देश ही नही बल्कि बाहर भी आपने विचारो का प्रसार किया है.......कुछ बहुत अच्छे दोस्त भी बने ....उमा, प्रीती जी, प्रियंका जी, सीमा जी , शमा जी , अनुराग जी , खुशी जी, और सूची बहुत लम्बी है....... ।

ब्लॉग पर आते रहें ....स्वागत है ....!!!

सीधी बात नो बकवास

DIKHAVE PE MAT JAO APNI AKAL LAGAO !!!! Imagine ur self in a Sprite Ad ..............

Your Colleague : Hey!! Kya yahan baitha mail forward karta rahta hai !! Naye equipments dekh.... Naye projects seekh..... Fatafat datasheets kar...... Overtime kar after 6:30... like me....! Do something gooood man !!

You : Achha! To usse Kya hoga ॥

Your Colleague : Impression!! ! Appraisal!!! Har appraisal main tu No 1! Hike in salary!! Extra Stocks

You: Phir kya hoga...

Your Colleague : Sr। Engineer ban jaayega॥Phir Lead Engineer !!! Phir Senior Manager!! One day U will be a Director of the Company man !!

You : Acchha to phir kya hoga...

Your Colleague : Abe phir tu aish karega! Koi kaam nahin karna padega ! Araam se office aayega aur MAIL check karega।

You : To ab main kya kar raha hoon???? "Dikhawe pe na jao, apni akal lagao। Hard Work hai waste,

trust only copy-paste " it is called yomantra......my world my rules.....????

भक्त, भगवान् और पुजारी

दोस्तों पिछले दिनों ...माता रानी के दर्शन करने वशनो देवी जन हुआ........वाह क्या सुकून मिलता है ...वैसा ही जैसा माँ की गोद मैं .....खैर वहां से लौट कर हम जम्बू में स्थित रघुनाथ मन्दिर गए ........सब कुछ ठीक चल रहा था ....मैं बहुत उत्सुक था ३३ करोड़ देवी देवताओ के दर्शन के लिए .... लकिन वहां पहुचकर एक सच्चाई से परदा उठ गया ....!!मैं हमेशा सोचता था की ......भक्त और भगवान् के बीच एक ही रिश्ता होता है .....वह है भावनाओ का लकिन मन्दिर में कुछ और ही पक रहा था......वहां गरीब भक्त तो भगवान् के दर्शन करने से भी डर रहा था ...कारण था वहां के पुजारी ....उनकी थाली में केवल १०० से ५०० रूपये के नोटों के अलावा भक्त का कुछ और स्वीकार नही है ......उनकी थाली में यदि आपने १० या ५ रूपये के सिक्के डाले तो माफ़ करना आपको वह वापस लेने होंगे......ऐसा वहां के पुजारी बाबा कहते है......यकीन न हो तो भगवान् के द्वार सबके लिए खुले है.....

वाह रे भगवान् तेरी शरण में भी पैसा ही बोलता है !!

जय हो मंगलमय हो ............

जिंदगी है..... तो घूमते रहो ???

जिंदगी है तो ख्वाब है
_ख्वाब है तो मंजिलें है
____मंजिलें है तो फासले है
__________फासले है तो रास्ते है
_________रास्ते है तो मुश्किलें है
____________ _मुश्किलें है तो हौसला है
____________ _____हौसला है तो विशवास है
____________ _________ _विश्वास है तो पैसा है
____________ _________ ___पैसा है तो शोहरत है
____________ _________ _____शोहरत है तो इज्ज़त है
____________ _________ _________ इज्ज़त है तो लड़की है
____________ _________ _____लड़की है तो टेंशन है
____________ _________ _टेंशन है तो कंसर्न है
____________ ______कंसर्न है तो अ ख़याल है
____________ _____ख़याल है तो ख्वाब है
____________ __खवाब है तो ग्रोथ है
__________ग्रोथ है तो जिंदगी है
______जिंदगी है तो ख्वाब है
_मतलब दुनिया गोल गोल है बस घुमने wala चाहिए ........

सफलता मेरे कमरे में

SEVEN SECRETS OF SUCCESSI found the answer in my room.1. ROOF said: Aim high.2. FAN said: Be cool.3. CLOCK said: Every minute is precious4. MIRROR said: Reflect before you act.5. WINDOW said: See the world.6. CALENDAR said: Be up to date.7. DOOR said: Push hard to achieve your goal.

अचार

Question : What is the opposite of Achaar…….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….….No, nooo.. its not Vichaar…..….….….….….….….….….Socho Socho….….….….….….….….….….Chalo hum batate hain…….….….….….….….….….….Opposite of Achaar is OnionPar Kaisse????Aise :: अचार = Pickle = pee-kalOpposite of Pee-kal is Pee-aaj = peeaaaj == Onion….Hence proved!!!!I know what is going in your head now..Wanna kill me ???????????

Marketing

HEY GUYS ॥ WANNA KNOW ABOUT VARIOUS TYPES OF MARKETING ?????????LEARN IT HERE ............ ...You see a gorgeous girl at a party।You go upto her and say ,"I am very rich। Marry me !That's Direct Marketing.You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl One of your friend goes upto her and pointing at you says,"He is very rich. "Marry him"That's ADVERTISINGYou see a gorgeous girl at a party.You go up to her and get her telephone number.The next day you call and say ,"HI , I M VERY RICH. MARRY me "That's TELEMAKETING.You're at a party and see a gorgeous girl You get up and straighten your tie, you walk up to her and pour her a drink. You open the door for her, pick up her bag after she drops it,offer her a ride, and then say,"by the wat, i m very rich. will you marry me ?"That's PUBLUC RELATIONSYou're at a party and see a gorgeous girl She walks up to you and says,"You are very rich"That's BRAND RECOGNITION.You see a gorgeous girl at a party.You go up to her and say. "I'M rich.Marry me"She gives you a nice hard slap on your face.That's CUSTOMER FEEDBACK !!!!!!!!!!You see a gorgeous girl at a party.You go up to her and say. "I'M rich.Marry me"And she introduces you to her husband.That's DEMAND and SUPPLY GAPYou see a gorgeous girl at a party.You go up to her and before you say,"I am very rich. Marry me !"she turns her face towards you......... ......... ॥she is your WIFE !!That's COMPETITION eating into your market share.SO TELL ME HOWZZ THIS

LOVE is LOVE

SEVENTEEN:U LOOK AT THEIR PROFILE/PICTURE CONSTANTLY
SIXTEEN:WHEN YOUR ON THE PHONE WITH THEM LATE AT NIGHT AND THEY HANG UP, YOUSTILL MISS THEM EVEN WHEN IT WAS JUST TWO MINUTES AGO.
FIFTEEN:YOU READ THEIR TEXTS or IMS OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
FOURTEEN:YOU WALK REALLY SLOW WHEN YOU'RE WITH THEM
THIRTEEN:YOU FEEL SHY WHENEVER YOU'RE/THEY' RE AROUND.
ELEVEN:WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THEM, YOUR HEART BEATS FASTER AND SLOWER AT THESAME TIME
TEN:YOU SMILE WHEN YOU HEAR THEIR VOICE.
NINE:WHEN YOU lOOK AT THEM, YOU CAN'T SEE THE OTHER PEOPLE AROUND YOU, AllYOU SEE IS HIM//HER.
EIGHT:YOU START LISTENING TO SLOW SONGS, WHILE THINKING OF THEM
SEVEN:THEY'RE ALL YOU THINK ABOUT.
SIX:YOU GET HIGH JUST FROM THEIR SCENT.
FIVE:YOU REALlIZE THAT YOU'RE AlWAYS SMILING TO YOURSELF WHEN YOU THINKABOUT THEM.
FOUR:YOU WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR THEM, OR ANYTHING TO SEE THEM.
THREE:WHILE READING THIS, THERE WAS ONE PERSON ON YOUR MIND THE WHOLE TIME...
TWO:YOU WERE SO BUSY THINKING ABOUT THAT PERSON, YOU DIDN'T NOTICE NUMBERTWELVE.
ONE:YOU JUST SCROLLED UP TO CHECK & ARE NOW SILENTLY LAUGHING AT YOURSELF.......
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IF YOU DIDN'T NOTICE NUMBER 12, POST THIS AS: "17 signs of falling inLOVE."AND THE PERSON WHO WAS IN UR MIND IS UR LOVE.. IT'S TRU, WHETHER U BELIEVE IT OR NOT.. SO GO & TELL THAT PERSON THAT HOW MUCH U LOVE HIM/HER, IF U HAVN'T TOLD YET.... ALL D BEST 4 UR LUV LIFE......have blast at this VALENTINE.....!!!

हैप्पी Valentine's day

Valentine's day can bring up a myriad of emotions which caneither bring couples closer for a short period of time or createfeelings of loneliness and separation for other couples or singles.So how can you deal with a holiday like this and actually enjoyyourself, whether you are in a "relationship" or not?Here are 12 suggestions to make your relationships better--no matter what day it is from out "Red Hot Love Relationships"book...1) Don't Forget Kindness and ThoughtfulnessWe all get in a rush sometimes and forget to be kind. We just wantto get the things done that we have to get done and move along tothe next thing to be done. Whether you are currently in an intimaterelationship or not--take a moment to be kind to the people in yourlife. Kindness certainly doesn't have to mean "doing" for someone(but it can.) It can mean just giving a smile, sending a kind, lovingthought, or simply listening to a story that you may have heardmany times before.2) Don't Forget AppreciationSo often we find ourselves dwelling on what irritates us about thepeople in our lives and we forget to appreciate the things aboutour relationships that are working. Appreciation only works whenyou want nothing in return. If there are "strings" along with yourappreciation of another person, (like you want appreciation inreturn) it will seem like an empty, needy gesture. Appreciationhas to be expressed from your heart and in such a way that isgenuine.3) Listen Closely to What Your Partner WantsWhether it's to make plans for a Valentine's day celebration orjust listening to how your partner's day went--leave your egoand your desire to help or "fix it" for him or her at the door andjust listen. We all get into habits that stifle communication- -thatshut off a true connection of the heart. To open up and bringmore joy and ease into your relationship, take a moment torealize what you do to assume, to fix or to judge (even thoughyou may not think you are doing those things) and just listento understand your partner.4) Listen Closely to What You WantListening closely to what you want can be even harder thanlearning to listen to your partner. So many people have learnedalong the way that it's not safe to feel emotions--and theysimply don't know how to listen to what they want. You have topractice listening to the voice inside you so that you can behonest and authentic with the people in your life. You haveto learn who you are and honor that by letting others knowwho the real "you" is.5) If It's an Intimate Relationship, Don't Forget Time AloneIn our busy lives, we often forget to recharge by spendingsome time alone. Whether it's taking a walk outside byyourself and enjoying nature or it's taking 20 minutes tomeditate or tune in and calm your thoughts--we' ve foundthat we are much better people and treat each other morelovingly if we take time for ourselves.6) Don't Forget to BreatheIt may seem kind of silly to remind you to not forget tobreathe, but so many of us actually live in the land ofanxious, shallow breathing. Belly breathing can relaxyou, help you to clear your mind and keep you in thepresent moment. What's that got to do with creatinggreat relationships? When we are relaxed, we listenbetter to others and we don't react quite so quicklyfrom old patterns. We are able to access a freshpoint of view when we breathe that can promotemore understand and closer connections.7) Don't Forget the "Show"What's the "show"? The show is what we do toshow the other person that he/she is special inour lives. It can be a greeting card, a present orcreating a special night or weekend away. Itcan be elaborate or it can be simple--whateverthe two of you prefer. The main thing is that you "show" the other person how special they are to you. 8) Don't Forget DiscernmentThe media likes to use hype and if you buy into whatthe mass media promotes as "the way Valentine's dayshould be," then you might be setting yourself up fordisappointment after the big day comes and goes.Remember, it's not about the money you spend orwhere you bought that special diamond necklace orring. It's about the love that's underneath all of that.9) Don't Forget to Be Present and Be RealIf you're like most people, you're usually eithermentally thinking about what you have to do orare going to do in the future or thinking aboutwhat happened to you in the past. The presentmoments fly by without you really participatingin them. To be present and real means to befully focusing on what's going on right here andright now. Great relationships are built on thatidea and whether it's Valentine's day or not, it'sa terrific practice to get into.10) Don't Forget to Think Long-Term Love and NotJust Short-Term "Wow"Whether it's a dating situation or long-term committedrelationship or marriage, when you are thinking abouta celebration of your love or of your relationship, keepin mind what would create and help foster continuedlong-term love instead of going for the "wow" factor.To know the difference, you have to be in tune withhow you and your partner like to celebrate--andeveryone's different so you have to pay attentionand listen.11) Don't Forget that You're Never too Young or Too Old for LoveMany people have a fixed age in their minds wherelove is no longer possible. This age might be 40, 50,60, or 80. We're here to tell you that love is possibleat any age. The trick to finding or renewing it is to recognize what ideas and beliefs have held you back or have sabotaged love in the past and change those habits. Anyone can change and at any age. It just takes a willingness and desire to do so and to take a chance on having something wonderful.12) Don't Forget About NostalgiaAnyone want to bring out those old records or tapesof the music you used to listen to when you first fellin love? What a special way to celebrate your love and to renew those feelings at the same time. You might go to a restaurant or park that you used to go to or do some activity together that used to make your hearts sing. Even if you are not currently in a relationship, you can resurrect things that used to be fun for you and have a mini-celebration of you.

प्रेम, कमिस्ट्री और फिलोसफी

दोस्तों... मुझे कभी-कभी लगता है कि दुनिया में प्रेम ही एक मात्र ऐसा एहसास हैं जिसका कोई उसूल नहीं होता है। इसे हम दोस्ती का रिश्ता भी कह सकते हैं। इस रिश्ते में एक दूसरे के प्रति समर्पण होता है, एक दूसरे को सम्मान दिया जाता हैं एक दूसरे की पंसद का, उसकी भावनाओं का सम्मान किया जाता है। वैसे लोग अक्सर करते हैं कि आज के समय में प्रेम के मायने बदल गये हैं लेकिन क्या वास्तव में प्रेम के मायने बदल सकते हैं ? नहीं मैं ऐसा नहीं मानता। प्रेम का अर्थ आज भी वहीं है जो सौ साल पहले था और कल भी वही रहेगा। कोई लड़का किसी लड़की के साथ बैठकर खाना खा ले, कोल्ड़डिंक या काॅफी पी ले, सिनेमा देख ले तो इसे हम उन दोनों के बीच प्रेम नहीं कह सकते। प्रेम का मललब है एक दूसरे को पूरी तरह जानना-समझना, एक दूसरे के लिए सम्मान और समर्पण की भावना होना, एक दूसरे के जज्बातों को समझना।द बायलाॅजी आॅफ लव किताब के लेखक डाॅ0 जेनव कहते है कि मनुष्य एक विचारशील जीव से पहले एक संवेदनशील है, इसलिए प्रेम जैसी भावना की कभी व्यक्ति के विकास और जीने की क्षमता को कमजोर कर सकती है। वहीं कुछ लोग प्यार को मनुष्य के अन्दर उपस्थित सबसे मजबूत और सकारात्मक संवदेना के रुप में देखते हंै। ‘आओ प्यार करें’ किसी हिन्दी फिल्म का नाम या डायलाॅग नहीं बल्कि जीवन जीने का जीवन मंत्र है जो आपको सेहत बनाए रखने के लिए हर पल दोहराना है। इसके लिए प्यार को महसूस करना काॅफी नहीं है उसे व्यवहार में लाना जरुरी हैं। रटगर्स यूनिवर्सिटी की शोघकर्ता और व्हाई वी लव किताब की लेखिका हेलन फिशर ने कहा है कि प्यार हमारे पास तीन रुप में आता है। पहला वासना, दूसरा चाहत और तीसरा आसक्ति वासना और चाहत तो समय के साथ खत्म होने लगते है लेकिन यदि यही चाहत आसक्ति बन जाये तो फिर वह बन्धन जिन्दगी भर का हो जाता है। जो सच्चे अर्थी में प्रेम कहलाता है। इसी क्रम में मानो वैज्ञानिक आर्थर एराॅन के अनुसार प्रेम में भावनाओं और संवेदनाओं के साथ कुछ और चीजों की भी महत्वपूर्ण भूमिका होती है। उनमें एक हैं आंखे। प्रेम में एक दूसरे की आंखों में देखने का बहुत महत्व हैं प्रो0 आर्थर एराॅन कहते हैं कि प्रेम में आय का आकर्षक होना भी बहुत महत्वपूर्ण कहीं है। दो चीजें जो प्रेम में सबसे मुख्य है वह है सौभ्यता और बुद्धि। बुद्धि जीवन के हर पहलु में काम आती है इसलिए प्रेम में भी महत्वपूर्ण है, वहीं सौम्यता प्रेम का सबसे जरुरी हिस्सा है। एक लम्बे सफल रिश्ते के लिए यह बहुुत जरुरी है। खैर वैज्ञानिकों के तथ्य निराले भी है और कहीं कहीं सार्थक भी। एक बार रास्ते से जाते समय एक कागज के टुकडे़ पर मेरी नजर गयी जिस पर कुछ धुधला-धुधला लिखा था ‘प्रेम और समय’। जिज्ञासा हुई और मैंने पढ़ा कि ‘एक द्वीप पर खुशी, दुःख, ज्ञान, प्रेम और अन्य सभी भावनाएंे रहती थी। एक दिन जब उन्हें पता चला कि द्वीप डूब रहा है तो प्रेम को छोड़कर बाकी सब नाव में बैठकर चल दियं। लेकिन प्रेम आखिरी पल तक वहाँ रुकना चाहता था। जब द्वीप ज्यादातर डूब गया तो उसने मद्द मांगना शुरु किया। उसे सम्पन्नता से कहा क्या तुम मुझे अपने साथ ले जाओंगे ? सम्पन्नता ने जवाब दिया मेरी नाव तो सोना और चांदी है इसमें तुम्हारे लिए कोई स्थान नहीं हैं। प्रेम ने गर्व से भी यही प्रश्न किया तो उसने कहा कि तुम गीले हो गये हो इससे मेरी नाव खराब हो जायेगी दुःख और प्रेम का गहरा रिश्ता था इसलिए उसने दुःख से मद्द मांगी लेकिन दुःख ने भी मना कर दिया। खुशी ने तो प्रेम की आवाज तक नहीं सुनी। प्रेम उदास अपने डूबने का इन्तजार करने लगा तभी अचानक एक आवाज आई पे्रेम आओं मैं तुम्हें ले जाऊंगा। एक युवक खड़ा था। उसने उसे ले जाकर शुष्क स्थान पर छोड़ दिया और अपने रास्ते चला गया। उसके जाने के बाद प्रेम ने ज्ञान से पूछा मेरी मदद किसने और क्या की ? ज्ञान ने जवाब दिया कि वह समय था उसने तुम्हारी मदद की वह इसलिए क्योंकि समय में ही प्रेम की कीमत समझने की योग्यता है।” वास्तव में समय ही है जो प्रेम की वास्तविक कीमत समझाता है।प्रेम के विषय में थोड़े दार्शनिक रुप में सोचे तो लगता है कि प्रेम जीवन की श्वांस है, प्रेम जीवन की प्राणवायु है, प्रेम जीवन की आत्मा है। प्यार के बिना जीवन रुखा सूखा होता है जीवन केवल कहने के लिए जीवन होता है। इसलिए यह स्वाभाविक है कि मनुष्य के प्राणों में निरन्तर प्रेम की प्यास बनी रहती है प्यास ऐसी कि कभी तृप्त होती प्रतीत होती है लेकिन फिर अतृप्त ही बनी रहती है कभी भी ऐसा समय नहीं आता कि मनुष्य घोषणा कर सके कि अब मैं पूर्णतः तृप्त हूँ इसलिए बुद्ध जैसे व्यक्ति भी निरंतर यात्रा में रहता है और यह यात्रा प्रेम पाने की न सही, प्रेम बांटने की तो होती ही है। राबिया का उल्लेख करते हुए ओशों ने कहा है कि एक दिन हसन नामक फकीर मिलने आया उसने देखा कि राबिया ने अपने कुरान में कुछ संशोधन कर रखा है। उसने वह पंक्ति काट दी थी जहां लिखा था कि शैतान से नफरत करों। हसन ने नाराजगी प्रकट की और कहा राबिया यह तुमने कैसे किया। यह तो अधर्म हो गया। राबिया ने जवाब दियां, धम्र अधर्म मैं नहीं जानता। मेरे दिल में अगर नफरत है ही नहीं तो मैं नफरत किसे कर सकती हूँ। चाहे फिर कोई व्यक्ति शैतान क्यों ने हो। विलियम शेक्सपीयर ने एक जगह कहा है कि मेरी प्रेमिका की आंखें सूरज क जैसी नहीं है, मंूगा भी उसके होठों से रंगीन है बर्फ भी उससे ज्यादा श्वेत है और काले बादलों का रंग भी उससे ज्यादा गहरा है, गुलाब भी उसके गालों से ज्यादा कोमल हैं फिर भी उसके सांसों की महक मुझे इन सब से अच्छी लगती है। मैं उसके चेहरे को पढ़ सकता हूँ मुझे उसमें नजर आता है समर्पण और वह प्रेम रस जिसके लिए मैं वर्षों से प्यासा था। मुझे उसकी आवाज में संगीत की मिठास लगती है। मैंने कभी ईश्वर को कभी देखा लेकिन मैं अपनी प्रियसी में उसके दर्शन पाता हूँ। जब वो जमीन पर पैर रखती है तो मानो स्वर्ग से उतर रही हो। हो सकता है यह सब मेरी कल्पना हो लेकिन मैं उससे प्रेम करता हूँ यह सच्चाई है। कल्पनाओं से निकल यदि वास्तविकता में देखे तो प्रेम तय नहीं किया जा सकता उसका हिसाब किताब बहुत मुश्किल है इसलिए धारणाएं भी एक दूसरे के खिलाफ है और यह भी कटु सत्य है कि इसमे से हर एक धारणा को एक ने एक बार किसी वैज्ञानिक, व्यक्ति का दार्शानिक ने सही कहा है।धारणा:-11. विवाह के बाद प्रेम का अन्त होता जाता है। 2. वह अक्लमंद होता है जो जिसके प्रेम मंे पागल होता हैै। उसी से विवाह कर कर लेता हैं।3. दूसरे व्यक्ति को देख परखने के बाद ही उससे प्यार होता है।4. सभी समस्याएं प्रेम से शुरु होेती है।5. गम क्या होता है यह आपको पहली बार में प्रेम में ही समझ आता है।6. प्रेम में अपना सब कुछ घटना पड़ता है।7. सफल विवाह के लिए आपस में प्रेम होना चाहिए।8. प्रेम के कारण आपकी अन्य लोगों में रुचि खत्म हो जाती है।9. विवाह स्वर्ग से तय होकर आते है। धारणा:- 21. प्रेम वास्तव में विवाह के बाद पैदा होता है।2. प्रेम में लोग पागल हो जाते है।3. पलक झपकते ही व्यक्ति प्रेम मंें पड़ जाता है।4. प्यार जीवन की अधिकांश समस्याओं का हल है।5. यह वह रास्ता है जिस पर आपको सिर्फ खुशी नसीब होती है।6. प्रेम सब को जीत लेता है।7. वैसे इरादा पक्का होना चाहिये। प्रेम तो बाद में आता है।8. आप एक समय में दो लोगों से प्यार कर सकते है।9. गलतियां स्वर्ग में भी होती है। वास्तव दोस्तों प्रेम के सम्बन्ध मं जितने मुंह उतनी बात वाली पंक्ति ठीक बैठती हैं। वैज्ञानिकांें ने प्रेम से जुड़े अनेक तथ्य उजागर किये है और दूसरे रहस्यों को अपने अन्दाज में समझाया है फिर भी इसे मात्र रासायनिक क्रिया कहना उचित नहीं है। दार्शनिक व्याख्याएं कहती हैं कि मन ुष्य एक संवेदनशील जीव है। और प्रेम इसके जीवन का एक बहुत अह्म हिस्सा है। यदि दुनिया में प्रेम सिर्फ रयायनों के कारण जीवित होता तो फिर हीर-रांझा और लैला-मजुंन अपने प्यार के लिए अपनी जान न गवां देते । वास्तविकता यह है कि प्रेम सिर्फ प्रेम हैं, प्रेम वह अध्ययन है जिसे सिर्फ महसूस किया जा सकता है। इसे किसी तरह के बन्धन में नहीं बांधा जा सकता और ना ही किसी से जबर्दस्ती पाया जा सकता है। यह हमारे भीतर आत्मा में आता है और उसी में विलप हो जाता है। इसमें कोई शर्त नहीं होती और न कोई सीमाएं। वैज्ञानिक प्रयास में प्रेम के बाद के रासायनिक विश्लेषण से शुरु होते हैं। वैज्ञानिक प्रेेम के साथ समर्पण, त्याग, और दीवनगी पर अभी भी शोध कर रहे है और करते रहेंगे। संत वैलेंटाइन की इन पंक्तियों के साथ अपनी लेखनी को विराम और आपको को प्रेम और प्रश्नों के बीच में छोड़ता हूँ। मैंने कभी नहींे जताया की मैं देवदूत हूँं। मैं तो बस प्रेम दीवाना हूँ। मुझे क्लाडियस से कभी डर नहीं लगा। मैंने उसकी जिन्दगी और उसके मरने बार भी प्रेम दीवानों का मेल कराया है। मैं खुश हूँ। मुझे अपनी का का कोई शिकवा नहीं है और ही लोगों के टानो की फिक्र हे क्योंकि प्रेम अमर है। उसे मिटाने की जितनी कोशिशें की जायेगी वह उतना ही मजबूत होता जायेगा। मुझे अपने दुश्मनों से भी प्रेम है। मुझे सलाखो के पीछे मरने के लिए छोड़ दिया गया। लेकिन मैंने अपना काम जारी रखा। नौजवान प्रेमी जोड़े मुझसे मिलने आते थे और मैं उनसे बस यही कहता था प्रेम करों, प्रेम बांटो और प्रेम से रहो। एक दिन मैंने देखा लोगा कोठरी के बाहर फूल और पैसें फैंक रहे है। मैंने कहा मेरा इन चीजों से क्या वास्ता। मैं तो निश्छल प्रेम का संदेश देने अपनी जिन्दगी कुर्बान कर रहा हूँ तो लोगों की आंखे भर आई। बस यही है प्रेम और उसकी गहराई .......

Battle of LOVE

If I could capture all my lovethis, I tell you, I would do...I'd put it in a keepsake bottlemade especially for you!You'd never, ever have to be blue,'cause you'd have plenty loveto last all the year through! So, here is a special bottle,though not all my love would fit,I still stuffed tons of hugs & kissesdown inside of it!Every time you feel down or sad, just remember this little bottle of love! You can take hugs and kisses out any time you need to - and they'll never run out!! You can even share them with your friends, there's plenty of love to go around!MAGIC TRICK F D DAYY: ek glass thanda pani lo,aur usey apne bazu baithe aadmi par dal do.....yeh thanda pani usey GARAMkar dega....ITZ TRUE!!!TRY IT !! BEAUTIFUL DAY EVRYONE....! ! Ashie॥lyff iz a game wich v hav 2 play!su live it, luv it n hav fun cuz॥"HAR PAL ME PYAR HAI,HAR LAMHE ME KHUSHI,KHO DO TO ''yAaDeIn" HAI॥ JEE LO TO "zNdAgI" HAI" !!

दिलवालों की बस्ती

एक दिलवालों की बस्ती थी..जहा चाँद और सूरज रहते थे..बस्ती- बस्ती फिरते थे हर पल दोनों हस्ते थे...फिर एक दिन वो दोनों रूठ गए और सरे सपने टूट गए...अब चाँद भी उस वक्त आता है जब सूरज सो जाता है...बादल सबसे कहता है सूरज उल्ल्जा- उल्ल्जा सा रहता है...चाँद के साथ सितारे है और सूरज अकेला आग में तनहा जलता है......

यादें

शायद कुछ याद आए.........!!!(font की truti के लिए sorry )
doston kabhi socha hai.............बचपन के din भी कितने अच्चे थे,तब तो सिर्फ खिलोने toda करते थे,वोह खुशियाँ भी न जाने कैसी खुशियाँ थी,तितली को पकड़ के उछाला करते थे, pair मार के खुद बारिश के पानी में ,अपना आप भिगोया करते थे,अब तो एक आंसू भी रुसवा कर जाता है,बचपन में तो दिल खोल के रोया करते थे !
का bade hue to ... दिल चाहता है आज फिर छोटा बन डांटना ,रोज़ पापा सुबह छुट्टी के बहने याद ,और असेम्बली में आँखे खोल के प्रयेर का ,समझाना क्लास में चुपके चुपके और खोलू ,और पकडे जाने पर पेट दर्द का झूठ bolon ,दिन भर स्कूल में मस्ती मारू और बस में जूनियर्स पे रॉब झाडू,वोह हर दिन होमवर्क अधुरा रह जाये,और अगले दिन मेरी कॉपी घर रह जाये,हर रोज़ दोस्तों से रूठ जाऊ पर ज़िन्दगी भर साथ निभाने वाला एक दोस्त बनू...
COLLEGE or जवानी के दिन.. ..पुराने दोस्त और नए यारा,मोहल्ले की छत पे डाले रहे daira ,रातों को जगे रहना और सुबह सुबह घर कूद के दिवार जन सिगारात्ते गली में जा के पीना वोह दातों को घड़ी -२ साफ़ करना ..कॉलेज सबसे लेट जन और सर से "गेट आउट फ्रॉम थे क्लास सुन्न के निकल जन,बहार आ के स्य्स्तेम को दोष देना,और कैंटीन जा के टेबल पे डांस और गाने गाना,papa ka dantna aur मम्मी ka samjhana .. yaad है सबसे अच्छा बहाना ,कॉलेज पास कर जाऊ पहले फ़िर है कमाना,दिल में सोचना ,करके कुछ है दिख्नना करियर प्लानिंग दिन और रात करना,कॉलेज की सबसे सुंदर लड़की को पटना और हाथो पे उसका नाम लिखना,खिड़की से झांकना और उससे गिफ्ट्स बार बार देना,ले के दोस्तों से उधार..........to guys i hope u like it?????

GOd is batter than Me

Friends i love to share somthing with you .....i hope u like it ......Last Year I threw out Worrying,it was getting old and in the way।It kept me from being me;I couldn't do things my way।I threw out those Inhibitions;they were just crowding me out।Made room for my New Growth,got rid of my old dreams and doubts.I threw out a book on MY PAST(didn't have time to read it anyway).Replaced it with New Goals,started reading it today.I threw out childhood toys(remember how I treasured them so)?Got me a NEW PHILOSOPHY too,threw out the one from long ago.Bought in some new books too,called I CAN, I WILL, and I MUST.Threw out I might, I think and I ought.WOW, You should've seen the dust.I ran across an OLD FRIEND,haven't seen him in a while.I believe his name is GOD,Yes, I really like His style.He helped me to do some cleaningand added some thing's Himself.Like PRAYER, HOPE and FAITH,Yes I placed them right on the shelf.I picked up this special thingand placed it at the front door.I FOUND IT - its called PEACE.Nothing gets me down anymore.Yes, I've got my house looking nice.Looks good around the place.For things like Worry and Troublethere just isn't any place.Its good to do a little house cleaning,get rid of the old things on the shelf.It sure makes things brighter;maybe you should TRY IT YOURSELF !!!.............hummm Finally GOD is batter than me.....so guys take my words TRY IT YOURSELF .
Dreams comes True......तथास्तु !!

Jai Ho Magalmay Ho........

Have a great life

This is one of the nicest mails I have seen and is so true:I dreamt that I went to Heaven and an angel was showing me around. We walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels. My angel guide stopped in front of the first section and said, "This is the Receiving Section. Here, all petitions to God said in prayer are received."I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out petitions written onVoluminous paper sheets and scraps from people all over the world.Then we moved on down a long corridor until we reached the second section. The angel then said to me, "This is the Packaging and Delivery Section. Here, the graces and blessings the People asked for are processed and Delivered to the living persons who asked for them." I noticed again how busy it was there. There were many angels working hard at that station, since so many Blessings had been requested and were Being packaged for delivery to Earth. Finally at the farthest end of the long corridor we stopped at the door of a very small station. To my great surprise, only one angel was seated there, idly Doing nothing. "This is the A cknowledgment Section," my angel friend quietly admitted to me. He Seemed embarrassed "How is it that? There's no work going on here?" I asked.. "So sad," the angel sighed. " A fter people receive the blessings that they asked for, very few send back acknowledgments. "How does one acknowledge God's blessings?" I asked. "Simple," the angel answered. "Just say, "Thank you, God." "What blessings should they acknowledge? " I asked. "If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep you are richer than 75% of this world. "If you have money in The bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish, you are among the top 8% of the world's wealthy. " A nd if you get this on your own computer, you are part of the 1% in the world who has that opportunity. " A lso ..... "If you woke up this morning with more health than illness ..... You are more blessed than the many who will not even survive this day. "If you have never experienced the fear in battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or The pangs of starvation .. You are ahead of 700 million people in the world.. "If you can attend a church/temple/ mosque/gurudwara meeting without the fear of harassment, arrest, torture or death you are envied by, and more blessed than, three billion people in the world. "If your parents are still alive and still married .. You are very rare. If you can hold your head up and smile, you are not the norm, you're unique to all those in doubt and despair." Ok, what now? How can I start? If you can read this message, you just received a double blessing in that someone was thinking of you as very special and you are more blessed than over two billion people in the world who cannot read at all. Have a good day, count your blessings, and if you want, pass this along to remind everyone else how blessed we all are.

नए वर्ष की पहली रात

नए वर्ष की पहली रात में
तुमने अपनी डायरी में
मेरे लिए शुभकामनाएँ लिखीं :
कि मुझे दुनिया में वह सब मिले
जो अभीष्ट और काम्य है
सब तरह का सुख
लंबी उम्र
देश-विदेश में नाम और ख्याति
यानि
विस्तृत विशाल सर्जन कर्म।
मैं तुम्हारी शुभकामनाओं के लिए
हृदय से कृतज्ञ हूँ
लेकिन मेरे दूरवासी दोस्त तुम एक चीज़ की कामना करना भूल गए
कि मैं
तुम्हारे अंतरंग नैकट्य की
अर्थपूर्ण अनुभूति में
उस सबका साक्षात्कार करूँ
जो
ज़िंदगी की शून्यता को भरने
उसकी निरर्थकता को काटने
और उसके अग्रगामी रास्तों को
अलोकित करने में
सक्षम है
यानि
मनुष्य और मनुष्य का
वह संबंध और साक्षात्कार
जो
रसपूर्ण ममत्व और आह्लाद का
स्वच्छ शुचि उद्गम है।

I've done somthing I want to do

I have a confession - I adore lists and "things I love" lists and the like... I know, it's a silly little thing - but I'm a silly thing sometimes. So I've seen this a couple places and I'm going to do it here...

Bold means I've done it. Italics mean it's something I want to do within the next five years. Here we go - let's start the show:

Started my own blog
Slept under the stars
Played in a band
Climbed a mountain
Sung a solo song and dance
Taught myself an art from scratch
Had a pillow fight
Watched a sunrise or sunset
Taught myself a new language
Had enough money to be truly satisfied
Gone rock climbing
Walked on a beach by moonlight
Had my portrait painted
Gone deep sea fishing
Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
Kissed in the rain
Gone to a drive-in theater
Started a business
Got flowers for no reason
Gone sky diving
Bounced a check
Broken a bone
Been on a speeding motorcycle
Published a book - a major life goal
Bought a brand new car -interest
Had my picture in the newspaper
Read the entire Bible, Geeta, Ramayan
Met someone famous
I want to be a famous
Joined a book club
I want to create a BAND....(My Band)
Lost a loved one
Had a baby (Um... No)
Owned a cell phone
Direct a Picture...Etc.


A Very Happy New Year ....To all of You

फिर मिलेंगे चलते चलते

जरा गौर से सुनिए जो कहता हूँ .........
कोई दीवाना कहता है, कोई पागल समझता है ।
मगर धरती की बैचनी को बस बदल समझता है ।
मै तुझसे दूर कैसा हूँ , तू मुझसे दूर कैसी है ।
ये तेरा दिल समझता है या मेरा दिल समझता है ।

मोहब्बत एक एहसासों की पवन सी कहानी है ।
माभी कबीरा दीवाना था , कभी मीरा दीवानी है ।
यहाँ सब लोग कहते है मेरी आँखों में पानी है ।
जो तू समझे तो मोती है जो न समझे तो पानी है .......(कुमार विश्वास )


मैंने पुछा कैसे हो॥
बदले हो या वैसे हो॥
रूप वोही अंदाज़ वोही॥
या फिर इस मैं कोई कमी॥

हिज्र का कुछ एहसास तो होगा॥
कोई तुम्हारे पास तो होगा...
मैं बिछरा यह मजबूरी थी॥
कब मंज़ूर मुझे दूरी थी॥

साथ हमारा कब छूटा है॥
रूह का रिश्ता कब टूटा है॥
आँख से जो आंसू बहते हैं॥
तुम को खबर है क्या कहते हैं॥

मैंने कहा आवाज़ तुम्हारी॥
आज भी है हमराज़ हमारी॥
फूल वफ़ा के खिल जाएँ गे॥
एक दिन फिर हम मिल जाएँ गे ......चलते चलते ........!!

Be thankful...to Me !!

Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to?Be thankful when you don't know something,For it gives you the opportunity to learn. Be thankful for the difficult times,During those times you grow. Be thankful for your limitations,Because they give you opportunities for improvement।Be thankful for each new challenge,Because it will build your strength and character. Be thankful for your mistakes,They will teach you valuable lessons.Be thankful when you're tired and weary,Because it means you've made a difference.It's easy to be thankful for the good things.A life of rich fulfillment comes to thoseWho are also thankful for the setbacks.Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive.Find a way to be thankful for your troubles,And they can become your blessings.Cherish the moment!!!

Have a Nice Day!! ooops not only day....have a nice Life...got it !!

संगीत के कई रंग

दोस्तों मेरी एक मित्र ने बहुत सही लिखा है कीसंगीत होता है उनके पास भी जिसने कभी कोई गाना न सुना ,कोई साज न सुना । गर आप किसी गीत संगीत सुर या ताल से वास्ता न रखते हो तो आज ये बात पढ़ लो :सुबह में मस्जीदसे सुनाई देती है आजान की आवाज -एक संगीत ,मन्दिर में बजती घंटी और आरती की आवाज -एक संगीत ,सुनो ये पंछी की चहचहाट -एक संगीत .......भौरों की ये गुंजन या कोयल की कुहू कुहू -एक संगीत .....जन्मके साथ गूंजता है बच्चे का जो रुदन उसमें है संगीत ,वह खिलखिलाती हँसी को सुनो तो वह भी तो है संगीत ,माँ की लोरियां सुला देती थी सुकून से वह भी है एक संगीत ,घरमें होती जो पूजा ,प्रार्थना ,बंदगी या आरती में गूंजता है संगीत ,बादलोंकी गरजमें गरजता है एक संगीत ,बिजली जब कड़कती है तो डराता है वह संगीत ,बारिशकी छम छम बूंदोंमें सुरीली सरगम सुनाता है संगीत ,बारिश के रुकते ही मेढक आगे बढाता है वह संगीत .....चलो अब दिल पर हाथ रख दीजिये ,सुनाई दिया आपको आपकी धडकनों का सुरीला संगीत ???!!!! काश आतंकियों ने ये संगीत सुना होता तो शायद आतंकवाद शब्द का जन्म ही नही होता .........

जय हो मंगलमय हो .......(साभार : प्रीती जी )

शरारती लड़की

तस्वीर देखी......क्या लगता है......????

Here comes today....!!!

Hi!

It is a brand new day again!Well.....Hope that all of you is having a wonderful time now!!For me...I am having a hard time for!!I am being a 12 hour maid!!!!Haha!Other than doing this,I am doing my free time!At least not for doing a 24 hour maid!If not I would have died.....How I hope that we can start school now.........But I learn new things everyday!Doing houseworks is quite fun!All those wriping and cleaning!!Haha........If you are feeling bored,and you don't mind,you can try to do these things!It is not dirty,to me,it is quite fun actually!But nothing is more fun than studying and making friends.......So that why I hope that we can all start school early!!!!!!!!!So what are you all doing nowadays??Feel free to tag me and give me your answer!!!Remember be polite,don't fight!Byes...........................The sun shines brighter when you smiles!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Who am I....???

Hello doston salam nameste ......guys u know what my name means...that is

V = You have a very good physique and looks.

I =You are always smiling and making others smile.

S = You are very broad-minded.

H =You are not judgmental.

so what about you just try it......????

What ur name means....... ?.. check it out !!Instructions : What you do is find out what each letter of your name means.Then connect all the meanings and it describes YOU. (Its TRUE) &(Is'nt it GRêT !!)

If you have double or triple letters, just count the meaning once.

A = You can be very quiet when you have something on your mind.

B = You are always cautious when it comes to meeting newpeople.

C = You definitely have a partier side in you, don't be shy to show it.

D = You have trouble trusting people.

E =You are a very exciting person.

F = Everyone loves you.

G = You have exce! llent ways of viewing people.

H =You are not judgmental.

I =You are always smiling and making others smile.

J =JealouslyK =You like to try new things.

L = Love is something you deeply believe in.

M = Success comes easily to you.

N = You like to work, but you always want a break.

O = You are very open-minded.

P =You are very friendly and understanding.

Q = You are a hypocrite.

R =You are a social butterfly.

S = You are very broad-minded.

T = You have an attitude, a big one.

U = You feel like you have to equal up to people's standards.

V = You have a very good physique and looks.

W = You like your privacy.

X = You never let people tell you w! hat to do.

Y = You cause a lot of trouble.

Z = You're always fighting with someone.

CHECK YOU'RE NAME MEANING AND YOU WILL FIND THAT THIS IS TRUE........ ......

King of Style...!!

King of style...!!

Take from Others..

A Nice Lesson..! If you Got???

Once a boy went to a shop with his mother. The shop keeper looked at the small cute child and showed him a bottle with sweets and said 'Dear Child..u can take the sweets... But the child didnt take. The shop keeper was surprised.. such a small child he is and why is he not taking the sweets from the bottle. Again he said take the sweets.... Now the mother also heard that and said.. take the sweets dear.. Yet he didnt take... The shopkeeper seeing the child not taking the sweets... he himself took the sweets and gave to the child. The child was happy to get two hands full of sweets. While returning home the Mother asked the child... Why didnt you take the sweets, when the shop keeper told you to take?.. Can you guess the response:Child replies... Mom! my hands are very small and if i take the sweets i can only take few.. but now you see when uncle gave with his big hands.... how many more sweets i got!

Moral: When we take we may get little but when God gives... HE gives us more beyond our expectations. ... more than what we can hold..!!

Keep Smiling..!

everyone who is indian?

friends ...friends friends what i say about last few day i meet many kind of people.....but i wana say something .....who believe that he or her proud to be an indian??
Every Indian, every politician, every intelligence guys, army-navy-marine everyone knows who is behind these attack's….its one & only Pakistani terrorist sponsored by ISI….wr is Shiv Sena…MNS….NCP….all are concerned abt there vote banks……let we the people of India resolve today to give these Pakis…a strong reply….lets stop all bi-lateral ties with them….kick off all the Paki artists-cricketers….cancel Samjhuta express all others shit stuff….make sure we stop giving ne kind of visas to these bastards……why shud our hard earned money go to these Pakis who in turn use it to sponsor terrorist activities against us….why shud we wait for our politicians to take ne steps….lets fight it out guys……
Jai Hind…Jai Bharat
.....I M Waiting for Kranti.....Bas Kranti there is no need to AHINSHA and all.

Jai Ho Magalmay Ho...

You and Me

Only U & ME.....
I get lost In your eyes
And I feel my spirits rise
And soar like the wind...
Is it love that I am in?
I get weak In a glance
Isn't that what's called romance?
And now I know'Cause when I'm lost...
I can't let goI don't mind not knowing
What I'm headed forYou can take me to the skies...
It's like being lost in heaven
When I'm lost in your eyes
I just fell Don't know why
Something's there we can't deny...
And when I first knew
Was when I first looked at you
And if I can't find my way
If salvation seems worlds awayOh,
I'll be foundWhen I'm lost in your eyes
I don't mind not knowing
What I'm headed forYou can take me to the skies...
It's like being lost in heavenWhen
I'm lost in your eyesI get weak in a glance
Isn't this what's called romance?Oh, I'll be foundWhen I am lost In your eyes...
......be safe and Keep in LOVE

शोक दिवस !!

दोस्तों ,शायद पिछले कुछ दिनों को शोक दिवस कहा जाए तो ग़लत नही होगा। आज भारत बाहर और भीतर दोनों ओर से आतंकवाद से जूझ रहा है । एक ओर वह आतकवादी है जो देश के बाहर से आकर कायरों की भांति मासूम लोगों को आपना शिकार बना रहे हैं .....और हम एक दो कोडी की राजनीती के लिए उसमें उनका सहयोग कर रहे हैं । और एक ओर हमारे प्रिय , मुंबई के करता धरता आपने बन्धु राज ठाकरे साहब जैसे है जो अपने देश मे मराठी शुभचिंतक के नाम पर उत्पात मचा रहे हैं, आतंकवाद फैला रहे हैं लकिन क्या करे .....बाहर से आए आतंकवादी करे तो आतंकवाद....भीतर नेता करे तो राजनीती ..... वाह रे प्रशासन तेरी लीला न्यारी ।वैसे एक कहावत है ....... जो आज के परिवेश में बहुत सटीक बैठती है......की "लातों एके भूत बातों से नही मानते" .....कहावत और मेरी लेखनी आपना मत रख चुके........आगे उत्तर प्रशासन पर छोड़ते है । पिछले दिनों के लिए शोक !! आने वाले समय के लिए ......क्रांति की कामना करता हूँ ।

(साभार : विवेक 'विद्रोही')

Infatuation Vs LOVE

Infatuation is the initial, instant attraction and intense desire for a person of the opposite sex.

Love is a friendship that has caught fire. It takes root, develops and grows one day at a time. The process is slow.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When he/she is away you wonder if he/she is cheating you. Sometimes you check perhaps even discreetly.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. Your beloved feels the same also and this makes both even more trustworthy.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions or some unclear actions about your beloved that you would not like to examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his/her presence even when he/she is away. Miles of distance do not separate you. You want him/her nearer, but near or far, you know he/she is yours and you can wait.

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you can admit it is difficult to be in one another's company, for the underlying fear that it will end in intimacy.

Love is the maturation of friendship. You are confident that you must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation is usually temporary and eventually fades. It, however, might lead you to do things you will regret later, but love never will.

Love is an upper. It makes you look up. Love usually lasts longer and goes deeper than strong sexual Feelings. It makes you think up and makes you a better person.

Infatuation makes you feel anxious, nervous and jealous. You feel convinced that you can't live without the other person. You are unable to see the person for who they really are because he/she is perfect in your eyes.

Love makes you feel excited. You are willing to respect the other person's opinions and accept the good or bad qualities. You share similar values and beliefs and you see the person for who they really are.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away! I can't risk losing you!"

Love says, "Be patient. Do not panic. Plan your future with confidence. There are rewards in waiting."

now its up to u what would u like to do........


Jai Ho Mangalmay HO.....

Romance with Senses

Namaskar, Good morning, Salam namaste......doston,
Firstly first welcome to ur blog and show.......well dear sometimes i think what is romance ? and In romance , whts the role of senses? than i got few element when we do romance plzz remember and feel it ...and they are smell,touch,hearing,sight,taste etc.......Now we talk about ROMANCE..........
Romancing with the Senses .......Most of us have fallen in love at least once in our lives. That one time that we fell in love could be the one great love of our lives, and that person we fell in love with is the one to whom we are blissfully married and with whom we see ourselves staying for the rest of our lives. That one time we fell in love could have also sparked for us a series of love affairs,some lasting happily for as long as it lasted, while others ending up in abitter breakup. Without resorting to sugary language found in sonnets and in drugstorepaperback romances, we can all say that being in love is a wonderfulfeeling. Being in love makes us dazed and lightheaded, as if we are drunk.It makes our steps airy, as if we are walking on the clouds. We serenade theworld with loud voices, and we smile and laugh even when there is nothingfunny. This is most true when love is still new and all the gestures of yourloved one appear romantic to you.There comes a point in every relationship, however, when the sparks ofromance, the fire that swept us off of our feet, fade into embers with theprosaicness of everyday life. When the flames die out, the relationshipeither just drags on or simply ends.
But we all remember how it is when love is still new.Perhaps if we make it a point to capture the newness of our love, ofreminding not just our loved one but also ourselves of how the relationshipstarted, then sparks do not have to die but just keep on burning.Continuously rekindling romance only takes a simple seduction of the senses.

*Sight*. All of us at some point in our lives will begin to develop finelines, grow gray hair and become thick at the waist. It is part of the agingprocess. But this does not mean we have to let ourselves go completely justbecause we are getting old. Would it not be nice to let our beloved get aglimpse of the pretty girl he first fell in love with?Make it a point to wear a nice, flattering dress every so often. Put on somemake up, but not too much since too much makeup only emphasizes theage-borne flaws of our skin. Keep yourself fit. Once in a while, turn offthe electric lights of the house and light up candles instead to set themood for some romance.

*Smell*. Never underestimate the power of the nose. The nose can pick upeven the subtlest of smells that come from our bodies and our surroundings.Some senses simply turn us off while some induce our bodies to produceendorphins, the feel-good hormone.To awaken your beloved?s senses and make him more aware of you, spray on abit of perfume and light up some scented candles. And since a lot of peopleswear by the old adage that the way to a man?s heart is through his stomach,the fragrant smell of dinner cooked especially for him also does the work.

*Taste*. As mentioned above, the way to a man?s heart is through hisstomach. We often associate food with pleasure because food, especially awell-prepared and a well-presented dish, is indeed a pleasure. Some foodsare also known to stir desire and act as aphrodisiacs. Examples of these arechocolates, oysters, almonds, peaches, strawberries and bananas. Feed yourdarling something special ? and something heady. It will definitely stir himup.*Hearing*. Food and scent are not the only ones that are capable of coaxingthe body to produce endorphins. Music can do this too. Slow music canenhance the romance in the atmosphere. You and your beloved can either dancecheek to cheek with the music, or simply reminisce about the wonderful timesyou have had together so far. As Barry Manilow once crooned: ?Maybe the oldsongs will bring back the old times; maybe the old times would sound new.?

*Touch*. Touch denotes intimacy, and intimacy breathes new life into thefires of a relationship. You do not have to dance to be able to touch, andnot every touch should have to lead to making love. It can be as simple asholding hands with him, resting your head against his shoulder, stroking hishair and kissing him gently. Of course, if such gestures lead to lovemaking,then it would be great. Just take it slow and do not force it.A healthy dose of romance keeps the sparks of a relationship alive andlasting. Add a little romance into your life with your beloved.....
so if u dont try these thing plz try it .......
I hope u like it guys and gals .....and very dear of mine my eldar friends........till than keep doing romancing, with sense of things................

Jai Ho Mangalmay ho........

वक्त नही....

प्रणाम,

दोस्तों मेरे मित्र वरिष्ट अनुराग जी, सीमा जी, नीरा जी का मैं आभार व्यक्त करता हूँ की वह मेरे ब्लॉग पर न सिर्फ़ बल्कि अपना अनुभव और आशीर्वाद भी दिया........मैं आपने पिछले लेख "वक्त नही वाह क्या बात है ...." के साथ कुछ बातें और जोड़ना चाहूँगा जो मुझे आशीर्वाद रूप में मिली .......
अनुराग जी ने कहा .....ख़ुशी है लोगों में,एक हंसी के लिए वक्त दौड़ती दुनिया में,जिंदगी के लिए नाम मोबाइल में दोस्ती के लए एहसासों की कद्र अपने सपनो के लिए जिंदगी मरने वालों को,जीने के लिए और.....वक़्त दोस्तों को ख्वाब चुनने के लिए वक़्त दोस्तों को जवाब बुनने के लिए......वाह आपकी इन पक्तियों से मेरी बात और स्पष्ट हो जाती है ......!
साथ ही नीरा जी और सीमा जी को धन्यवाद

वक्त नहीं.....waah क्या बात है !

नमस्कार ....... dosto !!! आप सभी का मेरे ब्लॉग पर hardik स्वागत है.....
हर ख़ुशी है लोगों के दमन में,
पर एक हंसी के लिए वक्त नहीं।
दिन रात दौड़ती दुनिया में,
जिंदगी के लिए ही वक्त नहीं।

माँ की लोरी का एहसास तो है,
पर माँ को माँ कहने का वक्त नहीं।
सारे रिश्तों को तो हम मार चुके,
अब उन्हें दफ़नाने का भी वक्त नहीं।

सारे नाम मोबाइल में हैं,
पर दोस्ती के लए वक्त नहीं।
गैरों की क्या बात करें,
जब अपनों के लिए ही वक्त नहीं।

आँखों में है नींद बड़ी,
पर सोने का वक्त नहीं।
दिल है घमों से भरा हुआ,
पर रोने का भी वक्त नहीं।

पैसों की दौड़ में ऐसे दौडे,
की थकने का भी वक्त नहीं।
पराये एहसासों की क्या कद्र करें,
जब अपने सपनो के लिए ही वक्त नहीं।

तू ही बता इ जिंदगी,
इस जिंदगी का क्या होगा,
की हर पल मरने वालों को,
जीने के लिए भी वक्त नहीं....... dosto अगर वक्त हो तो reply करना!!!

simle bole to .....

A smile costs nothing but gives much।It enriches those who receive withoutmaking poorer those who give.It takes but a moment, but thememory of it sometimes lasts forever.None is so rich or mighty that he cannot get along without itand none is so poor that he cannot be made rich by it.Yet a smile cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen,for it is something that is of no valueto anyone until it is given away.Some people are too tired to give you a smile.Give them one of yours,as none needs a smile so much ashe who has no more to give.............so guys and girls always smile like me......!!!

हम कहीन.........

दोस्तों..............

एक बार फ़िर से स्वागत है आप सब का मेरे और आपके ब्लॉग पर ।

दोस्तों पिछले दिनों मैंने एक जगह पड़ा कि ' नकली भिखारी को भीख न दें, भीख असली भिखारी को दें ' पड़कर अजीब लगा तो पड़ने की मंशा हुई ......तो पाया की एक मध्य प्रदेश के समाधान नाइक नाम के भीखारी का मानना है कि नेता भी एक भीखारी की तरह हैं जो चुनाव से पहले वोट की भीख मांगते हैं और चुनाव बाद नोट की ........लकिन उन मतलबी भिखारियों को भीख देने से अच्छा है मुझे भीख दो .....मैं तो फ़िर भी असली भीखारी हू । वाह नाइक साहब मान गए आपको । इसे कहते हैं .....उनकी भाषा मैं अपने बात कहना........ बधाई ।

अब बात सौरभ गांगुली की ....... सुनकर दुःख लगा की जिसने भारतीय टीम को नए स्तर तक पहुचाया । वह आज क्रिकेट को हमेशा के लिए अलविदा कह देगा......लेकिन यह तो प्रकृति का नियम है......दादा के योगदान को कभी भुलाया नही जा सकता । सौरभ को निकट भविष्य के लिए बधाई ।

और हा दोस्तों मैंने एक विज्ञापन देखा 'बैल बजाओ.... घरलू हिंसा रोको' । भारत सरकार की इस sarthak पहल पर बधाई..... आशा है इसका प्रभाव भी जल्द देखने को मिलेगा .............

जय हो मंगलमय हो.....

Mind Mantra

I CAN READ IT! CAN YOU fi yuo cna raed tihs, yuo hvae a sgtrane mnid too। Cna yuo raed tihs? Olny 55 plepoe can. icdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg.The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch atCmabrigde Uinervtisy, it dseno't mtaetr in waht oerdr the ltteres in awrod are, the olny iproamtnt tihng is taht the frsit and lsat ltteer bein the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raedit whotuit a pboerlm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raedervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Azanmig huh? yaeh andI awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt!

Got it ???

खुश रहो !!

सलाम नमस्ते .......नमस्कार मैं आपका दोस्त और इस ब्लॉग का होस्ट ....आपका आज कि पोस्ट मैं स्वागत करता हू .....कहते है अगर आप खुश है तो आपको अपने आस पास खुशी ही खुशी दिखाई देती है और अगर दुखी तो ........आप जानते है । तो यारो मैं तो यही कहूँगा कि ........

खुश रहो ...जिंदगी है छोटी , हर पल में खुश रहो, ऑफिस में खुश रहो, घर में खुश रहो, आज पनीर नही है तो क्या, दल में ही खुश रहो, आज जिम जाने का टाइम नही तो, दो कदम चल के ही खुश रहो, आज दोस्तों का साथ नही तो, टीवी देख के ही खुश रहो, घर जा नही सकते तो फ़ोन कर के ही खुश रहो, लैपटॉप न मिला तो क्या, डेस्कटॉप में ही खुश रहो, बिता हुआ कल जा चुका है, उससे मीठी यादें है, उनमे ही खुश रहो, आने वाले पल का पता नही... सपनो में ही खुश रहो, हस्ते हस्ते ये पल बीतेंगे, आज में ही खुश रहो ,जिंदगी है छोटी तो क्या हर पल में खुश रहो, आज कोई नाराज़ है तो क्या उसके इस अंदाज़ में भी खुश रहो, जिसे देख नही सकते उसकी आवाज़ में ही खुश रहो, जिसे पा नही सकते उसकी याद में ही खुश रहो, गर्लफ्रेंड के साथ बात न सही , उसकी मिस्काल में खुश रहो ।

सो यारा *condition apply "बस खुश रहो" !!! और मेरा मानना है कि हस्ते हुए चहरे अच्छे लगते है। so keep doing हा हा ही ही हू हू .........

जय हो मंगलमय हो .............

Broken Heart....let it be???

मैं ही भारी पड़ा ज़माने पर-तीर फिर लग गया निशाने पर
कितनी नाराज है अँधेरी रात एक जुगनू के तिलमिलाने पर.... तीर फिर लग गया निशाने पर
(साभार मेरे मित्र 'अमान')......
The heart is to be broken when losing some one or loved one. losing parents, pet, child and friend are affects the emotion of the people. The word broken heart is not the heart is broken a little pain on the chest. The heart is filled with feel so the people feel as pain in the chest. The emotional shock incident generates the brain to supply chemical (locha) to the heart to weaken. The broken heart people take time to relief from the problem or emotional shocks and in future it is fully approved. The peoples are not aware of their feelings. The people can't show their feeling like animals by attacking others. The emotion can be aware when we think about it. Most of the peoples are not aware of the feelings and how the feelings are arise, how to relieve from the weighted heart. To aware the feelings the person must be think about the feeling. All the person in the world have feelings but the peoples are not aware of feelings.The broken heart persons are weak and the peoples are think that know one come to relieve from the feeling. The heart is broken when the unexpected incident happens or physical loss like accident or death of lovable person. The person heart is broken when discarded by the lovable person. The incident is small or not but it broken the heart. Broken hearts is happening in the daily life and the peoples are must understand about the feeling to relieve from the emotions.The heart attack is different from the broken heart syndrome. The heart attack has a risk factors but the heart broken is not an disease. The broken heart is relate to the mental illness. The broken heart persons can relieve easily when compare to heart disease patient because the heart patient has weak condition and some problems in the heart. The problem of heart broken is recovered with in two weeks.Shock, Anger and feeling of loneliness are the some symptoms for heart broken and it is psychological pain. The heart broken is not remains for long but the peoples are not like to face the emotions are feelings. Heart broken syndrome is not like a stroke, which it is normally arise for heart attack patient. This problem spread through the people frequently than the doctor aware of the heart broken syndrome. But now a days there are some doctors are come front to know about the human psychology. The people who are affected by the heart broken can approach this type of psychiatrist to free from the heart broken. The around 10 years the heart broken syndrome was popular but it is not fined. The syndrome is not an common problem like heart attack....so be ware guys .

राज या 'राज' नीति

राज ठाकरे की जय हो...
जय इसलिए क्योकि राज देश के लिए उसी लगन से काम कर रहे हैं जिससे आतंकवादी....
आतंकवादी फ़िर भी बाहरी तौर देश को नुकसान पंहुचा रहे है पर अपने राज ठाकरे जी वाह जिस डाली पर बैठे हैं उसी को काट रहे हैं । ईश्वर राज को सदबुधि दे .....
कभी कभी राज .......मेरी भी दया के पात्र बन जाते हैं , क्योकि वह कही न कही वह एक ही माँ के भाइयो मे अन्तर कर रहे है....एक तुच्छ लोकप्रियता के लिए राज से रावन रूप धारण कर रहे है...... उस हटी बच्चे की तरह जो चाँद की कामना जमीन पर रहते हुए कर रहा है । कही न कही प्रशासन भी राज ठाकरे का पुरा समर्थन कर रहा है....उदाहरण अगर कोई आम आदमी चाकू के साथ पकड़ा जाए तो उसके महीनो जेल मे निकल जाते है लकिन कोई नेता २४ घंटे भी जेल मे नहीं रहता आखिर क्यों ? उनकी चार्जशीट मे दम नहीं होता.....जो देश मे जातीय आतंकवाद फैला रहा है उसके लिए देश मे कोई कानून कोई प्रशासन नहीं है ...... वाह रे प्रशासन तेरी भी जय हो ..........
वैसे भी जो बेटा अपनी माँ (भाषा) का अपमान कर सकता है उससे अधिक उम्मीद करना ग़लत होगा । राज जी आपको देश को जोड़ने काम करना चाहिए न की तोड़ने का.........मैं ईश्वर से प्रार्थना करूँगा ......वह जल्द से जल्द आपको सदबुधि दे......
इसी के साथ मैं अपनी लेखनी को विराम देता हूँ ।


जय हो ...... मंगलमय हो ।

Just 4 one more day..!!

Just for this morning, I am going to smile when I see your face and laugh when I feel like crying.Just for this morning, I will let you choose what you want to wear, and smile and say how perfect it is.Just for this morning, I am going to step over the laundry and pick you up and take you to the park to play.Just for this morning, I will leave the dishes in the sink, and let you teach me how to put that puzzle of yours together.Just for this afternoon, I will unplug the telephone and keep the computer off, and sit with you in the backyard and blow bubbles.Just for this afternoon, I will not yell once, not even a tiny grumble when you scream and whine for the ice cream truck and I will buy you one if he comes by.Just for this afternoon, I won't worry about what you are going to be when you grow up, or second guess every decision I have made where you are concerned.Just for this afternoon, I will let you help me bake cookies and I won't stand over you trying to fix them.Just for this afternoon, I will take us to the Super Marketand buy us both a Happy Meal so you can have both toys.Just for this evening, I will hold you in my arms and tell you a story about how you were born and how much I love you.Just for this evening, I will let you splash in the tub and not get angry.Just for this evening, I will let you stay up late while we sit on the porch and count all the stars.Just for this evening, I will snuggle beside you for hours,and miss my favorite TV shows.Just for this evening when I run my finger through your hair as you pray, I will simply be grateful that God has given me the greatest gift ever given. I will think about the mothers and fathers who are searching for their missing children, the mothers and fathers who are visiting their children's graves instead of their bedrooms, and mothers and fathers who are in hospital rooms watching their children suffer senselessly, and screaming inside that they can't handle it anymore.And when I kiss you good night I will hold you a little tighter, a little longer.It is then, that I will thank God for you, and ask him for nothing, except one more day......... .... !!!!!!!!!

Have a Blast this Diwali

Very Firstly Wish You HAPPY Diwali .............With all Gooooooood kind of Blast......So yara Go for Rocks ...this diwali.
I wish u got lot of hugs and happiness on this Diwali...This is for you guys.....my Diwali Gift...here its come.
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Rescuing Hug - I sent mine!!! especially for you*Hug**Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug**Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug* *Hug* *Hug**Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug**Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug**Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug* *Hug* *Hug**Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug**Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug**Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug* *Hug* *Hug**Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug**Hug**Hug* *Hug**Hug* *Hug**You have just been hugged!That's right, there's no getting out of it this time!This is the start of a full-scale Hug O' War!So hug everyone you know!With all the other forwards out there,I thought this would be a good one to start.The hug is my favorite sign of affection.It can mean so much, and many things at the same time.It can be a sign of love, support, caring, comfort or anything.So here you go. All I can say it will do is brighten someone's day.I mean, we all need a hug once in a while.So send this on if you'd like, to anyone who may need a hug,Send it back to whoever sent it to you,Goodness knows, we could all REALLY use a hug sometimes.Soooo . Enjoy your hug . . And pass one on to someone else . . .Especially, someone that really needs one! Thanks ...God Bless you, your family, & your friends!!!"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So, love thepeople who treat you right and forget about the ones who don't. Believe thateverything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. Laugh whenyou can and apologize when you should. Let go of what you can't change. lovedeeply; play hard; forgive quickly; take chances. Learn from your mistakes.People change and things go wrong, but always remember: life goes on..."

Aap Sabhi Ki Diwali Shubh Ho.....!!!!BOOOOOOOOOM

Why we do ??

As I am saying good night at the end of the day,And you are not here, but many miles away,My heart is so empty and so lonely inside,As I wipe away a tear I am trying to hide.

I close my eyes and try to go to sleep,But with the sadness inside I begin to weep.Suddenly I remember what you once said to me,Just meet me in the stars, waiting for you I will be.

When distance tends to keep us apart, Remember I still hold you near in my heart.When the night together, can't be ours,Just close your eyes and meet me in the stars.

Meet me in the stars, I'll be waiting there for you.With a bottle of wine and glasses for two.Just close your eyes and there you will see,Waiting in the stars, just for you I will be.

Hoooooooo Diwali

Waasss Up guys ??? what nothing .....let we think all togather....???
Somtime Me and Yo mantra ......who has the gift of saying so much with so few words.
Enjoy.......I've learned.... That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of anelderly person.I've learned.... That when you're in love, it shows.I've learned.... That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!'makes my day.I've learned.... That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of themost peaceful feelings in the world.I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right.I've learned.... That you should never say no to a gift from a child.I've learned.... That no matter how serious your life requires you to be,everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.I've learned.... That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and aheart to understand.I've learned.... That simple walks with my father around the block on summernights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.I've learned.... That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer itgets to the end, the faster it goes.I've learned.... That money doesn't buy class.I've learned.... That it's those small daily happenings that make life sospectacular.I've learned... That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to beappreciated and loved.I've learned.... That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.I've learned.... That when you plan to get even with someone, you are onlyletting that person continue to hurt you.I've learned.... That love, not time, heals all wounds.I've learned.... That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is tosurround myself with people smarter than I am.
I've learned.... That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.I've learned.... That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.I've learned... That life is tough, but I'm tougher.I've learned.... That opportunities are never lost; someone will take theones you miss.I've learned.... That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dockelsewhere.I've learned.... That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her onemore time before she passed away.I've learned.... That one should keep his words both soft and tender,because tomorrow he may have to eat them.I've learned.... That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.I've learned.... That when your newly born grandchild holds your littlefinger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.I've learned.... That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but allthe happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.I've learned.... That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.


now time for ba baye......U Go For Diwali and Yenjoy ur moment....!! and sending me lot of methaeeeeeeeee ur yenjoying moment...

Manthan Magazine Internet Edition

Me and Guests

Ek Hi Baat Hai.........

Salam Namaste.....Jai Ho.... Jai Shri Ram Ya Heri Om Ya Helllo ....hi....Good morning EK Hi Baat Hai.............
Jaha Bhi Rahe Ek Hi Baat Hai
Tum Paas Nahi Ek Hi Baat Hai
Kabhi Bin Tumhare Roya Karte The
Ab Tum Door Ho Ek Hi Baat Hai
Dil Mein Pehle Waali Baat Nahi
Sau Jatan Karo Ek Hi Baat Hai
Dil Ke Aayine Mein Tumhe Dekh Liya
Ab Jo Bhi Roop Dharo Ek Hi Baat Hai
Bharam Saare Ab Tumne Kho Diye
Bahaar Ho Ya Khizaa Ek Hi Baat Hai
Woh Waqt Tha Jab Hum Mila Karte The
Waade Saare Wafa Ke Kiya Karte The
Rishta Chah Ka Tha Jo Tumne Mita Diya
Ab Subah Ho Ya Shaam Ek Hi Baat Hai
Ab Na Hi Woh Dil Hai Na Hi TumJaisi Bhi Rut Ho Ek Hi Baat Hai
Bin Tumhare Jeena Bhi Kya Jeena Hai
Zindagi Ho Ya Maut Ho Ek Hi Baat Hai

Stone and stand

A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During somepoint of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other onein the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything,wrote in the sand: "TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE." They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take abath. The one, who had been slapped, got stuck in the mire and starteddrowning, but the friend saved him. After the friend recovered from the neardrowning, he wrote on a stone: "TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE." The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "AfterI hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?" The other friend replied: "When someone hurts us, we should write itdown in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someonedoes something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can evererase it." LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND, AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONEok frnds hope u liked the story u all r my best frndsin a few days my exams r going to start i am taking a long leave i will be meeting you again on november so u all wish me the best 4 my exams and one more thingi wish everyone in the world a very happy "eid" and "navaratri" celebrations.i may post mails or maynot but i will be missing beautiful mails from all of u. I Hope u getting wht i wana say.....
Time for Ba bye till than keep loving togather .......and comments and sugessions about my blog ........with regards 4m ur very Known.
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Yo!! Mantra

Mirror Mantra....U wana Know???

Long ago in a small, far away village, there was a place known as the House of 1000 Mirrors. A small, happy little dog learned of this place and decided to visit. When he arrived, he bounced happily up the stairs to the doorway of the house. He looked through the doorway with his ears lifted high and his tail wagging as fast as it could. To his great surprise, he found himself staring at 1000 other happy little dogs with their tails wagging just as fast as his. He smiled a great smile, and was answered with 1000 great smiles just as warm and friendly. As he left the house, he thought to himself, 'This is a wonderful place. I will come back and visit it often.' In this same village, another little dog, who was not quite as happy as the first one, decided to visit the house. He slowly climbed the stairs and hung his head low as he looked into the door. When he saw the 1000 unfriendly looking dogs staring back at him, he growled at them and was horrified to see 1000 little dogs growling back at him. As he left, he thought to himself, 'That is a horrible place, and I will never go back there again.'
All the faces in the world are mirrors. What kind of reflections do you see in the faces of the people you meet? Kuch Samjh aya....i hope u got it what i want to say...
so yara.......follow the YO!! Mantra and keep rocking ...
And remember... be kinder than necessary-everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
Live simply,
Love generously,
Care deeply,Speak kindly....Leave the rest to God or BOSS yani Me (Vish)

A little Love story

Dosto some friends think tht i m so unromantic guys but 2day i wana share 1 thing abt my collage life when i was in Love with my classmate...main use apne style se prapose karna chahta tha.....wo style tha ....LOVE Letter..ha ha wahi jo mugleazam se lekar ab tak HIt raha..but i wana do something different..so i write letter a L/Letter
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My Dearest friend,
Plz ans. d following questionnaire 4 Options
a. 10 marks,
b. 5 marks
c. 3 marks

Whenever u enter d classroom, ur sight always falls on me becoz
a. of love
b. u couldn't control seeing me
c. really ... am I doing it?

Whenever prof. cracks joke, u laugh n turn n look at mebecoz
a. u always like 2 see me smiling
b. u r testing whether I like jokes
c. u r attracted by my smile

When u were singing in the class, I entered n immediately u stoppedsinging becoz
a. u r so coy to sing before me
b. my presence influenced u
c. u feared tht whether I'll like ur song

When u were showing ur childhood photo, when I asked 4 it, u hideit becoz:
a. u felt ashamed
b. u felt uneasy
c. u don't know

During trekking, myself n my friend gave u hand 4 lifting u nu took only my friend's becoz
a. u enjoyed my disappointment
b. u won't feel leaving my hand after grabbing
c. u don't know

U were waiting yesterday 4 bus n didn't get into ur bus
a. u were waiting 4 me
b. u were dreaming abt me n didn't notice d bus
c. tht bus was crowded

U introduced me 2 ur parents when they came 2 college becoz
a. am going to be ur groom
b. u just want to know wht ur parents think abt me
c. just u felt like introducing me 2 them

I told tht I like gals wearing roses Next day, u came with a rose onur head becoz
a. to fulfill my wish
b. u like roses
c. by chance u got a rose

On tht day, it was my birthday u 2 came 2 temple early at 6:00 A.Mbecoz
a. u want 2 pray along with me
b. u want 2 meet me before any 1 could meet on my birthday
c. u want 2 wish me at temple becoz u r spiritual


She reply---
1. If somebody sits in d first row, normally people entering d class,sees themY/N
2. If a girl n looks anyone, is it love?Y/N
3. While singing, if somebody forgets lines of d songs, will he/she stopsinging or not?Y/N
4. I was showing 2 my friends (who r all girls) my childhood photoU poked ur nose inside right ?Y/N
5. I avoided to hold your hand during trekking. Couldn't you understand yet?Y/N
6. Should I not wait for my best friend at d bus stand?Y/N
7. Shouldn't I introduce you to my parents as a friend?Y/N
8. You have said you also like Lotus, cauliflower, banana's flower. Is ittrue ?Y/N
9. Oh was that your birthday. That's why I could see you in temple. I comedaily to Temple.
Do you know ?Y/N

If u have answered "Yes" to any of the question, then I am not loving you.If u have answered "No", then you don't know the meaning of Love.Hope everything is clear to u.

So tht is my Love story whom start with letter and end with letter...but i m still trying new things new ideas.....

Tension nahi lane ka....

Ohhh Helloooo Gals.. gals...gals....boys... boys.. boys....
wass up??? feel little bit tense through ur family, friends, exam etc.
than y dont u try my Yo!! Masti Mantra.......its quite simple.

Give time ur self at least 2-3 hrs (listen music dance playing Cricket etc. read some .
Meditation
Spend some time with children's
Share ur feelings with ur personal friend or it may be ur Dairy or....u know wht i mean.
And last but not least Keep doing scraping to Dr. Vish.

and u know wht is talent
Talent does not mean tht u have 2 be an artist who paintsmasterpieces, or a gymnast who does flips. Talent resideswithin u right now, in many different ways.Caring 4 others is a talent, teaching is a talent, making people feelwelcome is a talent, solving problems is a talent n parentingis a talent.Never underestimate ur talents n try not to compare or wish 4the talents of others. Focus on n accept d talents u have,n u will find great fulfillment in life.

Life and Happiness

Hello Yaron.........wasss up?
It's basic philosophy is this, at least in my interpretationWork hard at ur life n urself. Be a gud person, n Yenjoyeverything there is under d sun. D author writes "I searchedin my heart how 2 gratify my flesh with wine, while guiding myheart with wisdom I made my works gr8, I built myself houses. Ibecame great n excelled" Actually d mesge is this (in my crude non-scholarly analysis)Find a life 2 live, find a woman 2 love, find a place 2 work nlive 2 ur fullest, love 2 ur greatest capacity, work urhardest, n be a gud person. Tht of course, leaves the qus. Wht shuld we be doing withthis time n how do we stay happy?
So First of all, don't expect 2 be happy all d time. Sometimes we're sad or angry or depressed. But if rather than fighting against it, u just relax in2 d emotion n ride it through until it's over, itdoesn't hve 2 be a gut-wrenching experience. It's gud 2experience these extreme emotions it let's u know u're aliven feeling.

Of course we'd all like 2 stay +tive n happy n content asmuch as possible. It's especially useful 2 be in this state whninteracting socially, becoz it's d best way 2 attract otherpeople 2 u. So how does 1 stay in this state?

My secret- BalanceEven if u loves ur work u can't spend d entirety of everyday working. u can't spend it partying or sarging either, as funas tht may be. However u'll find tht if each day, uproductively do something in each of d foll